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There's only two things that I'm "supposed to do".... pay taxes and die when the time comes. LIke a previous poster stated, women are not sex vending machines for the man to insert his dick in the slot whenever he feels horny. Seriously??
That type of attitude would only yield 'pity'/'begrudging' sex and that's not how things are supposed to be. It's quality over quantity. If it's a lack of any physical intimacy, then we're talking. But a woman has a right to be tired. A woman has a right to express her feelings. As cliched as it may sound, we women wear so many hats these days -- breadwinner, mother, wife, referee, chauffer, you name it. Most of us do it without any complaints. Sometimes fatigue after a long, tiring day is to be expected. Deal with it.
Very often the stresses of life impact the libido, particularly for women. For some, it's dramatic. For others, not so much. Either way, the communication lines should be open where both partners can discuss things freely and come to a compromise. Set aside date nights. If a relationship is built on a strong foundation, the libido "issues" are often worked out. I really haven't met a woman who wants to be celibate in a relationship. What she does want is some understanding and the common decency of a discussion.
So, OP, the answer to your question is...no, it's not ok to cheat. I don't want to have anyone's sloppy seconds. Just break up with me.
Actually, you only CHOSE to mention one part of my post.
Since you're trying to have selective memory when it comes to my post, let me post what I REALLY posted:
"Ladies, if your man needs it every other day, you are SUPPOSED to give him sex every other day.
Men, if our lady needs it every other day, you are SUPPOSED to give her sex every other day."
I'm clearly saying that men AND women should satisfy each other.
Great job on misreading my post!
Who "needs" it every other day? I mean, sure, we'd love to have it every other day, or even every day...or every morning and every night...but "need"? Seriously? I mean, what if they "need" it and don't get it. Does their penis fall off or something??
Who "needs" it every other day? I mean, sure, we'd love to have it every other day, or even every day...or every morning and every night...but "need"? Seriously? I mean, what if they "need" it and don't get it. Does their penis fall off or something??
If I needed it every other day or else Mr. Happy would fall off, then my penis would have fallen off a long time ago!
I would love to try to do it every day, just to see if I could handle it. I don't know if I could, but at least it would be fun to try!
If sex is important to you, it obviously isn't to her. You two are in different palces in your life. Communication is key. Let her know how you feel. Perhaps she wants you to initiate, like the caveman you sound like you are. Of perhaps she isn't attracted to you sexually, or she doesn't enjoy sex with you. In that case you are both wasting your time. TALK TO HER. There is, of course, NO EXCUSE for cheating in a monogamous relationship. Ask her WHY she doesn't have sex with you. If you don't like the answer, find someone else.
what is so wrong with remaining platonic with GF for a temporary period, getting action elsewhere, and then returning to have sex with GF when she is up for it again?
That you have to ask this question at all says you need to go back to middle school and learn about STDs. It's sickening to me that people like you are out there having sex at all.
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Originally Posted by corngasm
I had an ex who would constantly b*tch and whine if we went without sex for like 4 days, which then turned me off even more and I would make him wait longer.
So you were "punishing" him?
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Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda
well how about it - 1 month, 6 months, 1 week?
Should a man be expected to go without sex? - and let's assume there is no medical reason either.
You know what they say about assume. Assume makes an ass out of you and me. Back to your question, I just don't believe men can be celibate. That's no reason to act like bungholes about sex though; just to be sure they seek the kind of relationship, whatever that is, which is the most honestly a fit for them and their sexual needs.
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