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Old 01-13-2013, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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So my girlfriend has an account on twitter, I'm not allowed to follow her, she doesn't want me to see what she tweets, do I have the right to be suspicious or am I just over reacting?
My ex did this too and it was pretty irritating. She did it with both FB and Twitter. When we broke up I found out that she just used the accounts to talk trash about me.

And that was the day I vowed to never be whipped again.
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Old 01-13-2013, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Hampton
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Coming from a female

I think you should be suspicious. How long have you been in a relationship with her?
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Old 01-13-2013, 02:48 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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"Not allowed" to follow her? Ask her how you're supposed to establish trust, being that mutual trust is the basis of any relationship. No trust, no relationship.
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Old 01-13-2013, 02:52 PM
 
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This smells bad.
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Old 01-13-2013, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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This smells bad.
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Old 01-13-2013, 02:57 PM
 
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I'd say it looks odd, unless you are skipping details - do you have a history of ragging on her for things you see on FB or something else, grill her with "who's this" and "who's that"? Did she give you a reason that you haven't told us?
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:44 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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If she were sneaking around she wouldn't even tell you she uses twitter or she'd have a secret account, if that's possible. Otherwise, she probably just wants to be free to express herself without you having anything to say about it. It might be a holdover from a parent/child relationship and you're the authority figure.

Just humor her and stop reading so much into it. You'll eventually break up or get married. So who cares?
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:56 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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Can't you follow whoever you want on Twitter? Make a fake account and follow her with that...
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Old 01-13-2013, 04:00 PM
 
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So should you have access to her e-mail passwords too? Does she not deserve any privacy?

She probably likes the anonymity of her twitter account and posts things she wouldn't feel comfortable posting otherwise.

But if you have no trust for her, you may want to rethink the relationship.
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Old 01-13-2013, 04:06 PM
 
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If she is supposed to be shaung her life with you then why can't she share all of her life with you? I don't mean passwords either, but simply what she does.
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