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I've been seeing this guy named Jason for a few months now. He used to be friends with a guy that I dated many years back. We're currently just seeing each other casually, but I'm starting to really like him. We've made out a few times, but that is it.
So the other day we were talking about my ex and what a jerk he was, and Jason mentioned that he would always show his friends nudes that girls had sent him. I said that I didn't know he had done stuff like that and asked Jason if he ever showed him any nudes of me (of which he had plenty), and Jason's reply was that he showed him a lot more than that. Ex and I regularly documented our extracurricular activities.
I'm kind of uncomfortable with this. I knew the pictures could end up anywhere and be seen by anyone, but this is different. Am I the only one that thinks it is weird that Jason would want to date me after pretty much seeing me in action with someone else?
I guess it is just a weird feeling to think that I haven't even taken off my top for Jason, but he has seen pretty much everything already anyway, without me knowing this whole time.
I wouldn't date my friends ex for one. I may sleep with her after getting his approval, which I've done, but I wouldn't date her. No thanks, I don't want a girl that my friend wasn't interested in haha.
As for the pictures, I'd show friends pictures of girls I was sleeping with, but not dating. There's a line there and most guys don't cross. Some random chick, by all means show away. A chick you actually are dating or like, nothing overly naked..
Yeah, if some random girl starts sending me pics I might show my buddies. I don't show nudes of girls I am currently dating or have dated. Not a very nice thing to do.
If I saw a girl's pics with another guy, I obviously wouldn't like it... but I suppose I'd get over it because it's not like I would expect/want any girl I'm dating to be a virgin anyway.
I've been seeing this guy named Jason for a few months now. He used to be friends with a guy that I dated many years back. We're currently just seeing each other casually, but I'm starting to really like him. We've made out a few times, but that is it.
So the other day we were talking about my ex and what a jerk he was, and Jason mentioned that he would always show his friends nudes that girls had sent him. I said that I didn't know he had done stuff like that and asked Jason if he ever showed him any nudes of me (of which he had plenty), and Jason's reply was that he showed him a lot more than that. Ex and I regularly documented our extracurricular activities.
I'm kind of uncomfortable with this. I knew the pictures could end up anywhere and be seen by anyone, but this is different. Am I the only one that thinks it is weird that Jason would want to date me after pretty much seeing me in action with someone else?
I guess it is just a weird feeling to think that I haven't even taken off my top for Jason, but he has seen pretty much everything already anyway, without me knowing this whole time.
Personally, I don't care about nude pictures. I am an artist, seen too many nudes (fat, tight, loose, gorgeous, hideous, etc you name it) it is like meh
Here is the deal, if I found my pictures end up on some website, I'd sue. If I send out my nude pictures, I suffer from the consequences of my own action. If you don't want others to see you naked, don't send them your photos.
In term of Jason, well, he sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. He can get into legal trouble if he is not careful with those photos.
Edit: My dad considers bikini pictures porn, different people have different values. Can't really blame somebody if they don't know or share your moral code.
I've been seeing this guy named Jason for a few months now. He used to be friends with a guy that I dated many years back. We're currently just seeing each other casually, but I'm starting to really like him. We've made out a few times, but that is it.
So the other day we were talking about my ex and what a jerk he was, and Jason mentioned that he would always show his friends nudes that girls had sent him. I said that I didn't know he had done stuff like that and asked Jason if he ever showed him any nudes of me (of which he had plenty), and Jason's reply was that he showed him a lot more than that. Ex and I regularly documented our extracurricular activities.
I'm kind of uncomfortable with this. I knew the pictures could end up anywhere and be seen by anyone, but this is different. Am I the only one that thinks it is weird that Jason would want to date me after pretty much seeing me in action with someone else?
I guess it is just a weird feeling to think that I haven't even taken off my top for Jason, but he has seen pretty much everything already anyway, without me knowing this whole time.
I think I would be skeeved out by dating a guy who has seen me basically be a porn star. I feel your pain. It does seem like an odd situation.
At least he was honest about it. But still, you're only dating casually, who knows how he'll feel if you two start to get serious. Also, does he expect you to send him pictures too down the line, or let yourself be taped with him, because you did it before? I think I would be really curious as to just how this guy thinks of me if I were you.
But more importantly, if I were you I would immediately get online and see if your lovely ex posted those pictures/vids(?) anywhere. Sounds like it is a real possibility.
Why would you be uncomfortable? It's just tangible proof that you screwed someone else. It's no different than telling him "Yeah, I fexcked that guy a long time ago" in my opinion.
Yeah, if some random girl starts sending me pics I might show my buddies. I don't show nudes of girls I am currently dating or have dated. Not a very nice thing to do.
If I saw a girl's pics with another guy, I obviously wouldn't like it... but I suppose I'd get over it because it's not like I would expect/want any girl I'm dating to be a virgin anyway.
I guess that is true.
But isn't there a difference between knowing something and seeing something?
Am I just overthinking this?
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