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Old 01-18-2013, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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I recently met a girl who works at the same company as me, we don't work together as we work in different locations though

We got into a pretty hot sexting session last night, and even though I havent slept with her, lets just say I took care of matters myself since she couldn't be there

Now I'm suddenly not interested in her anymore. She wants to hang out tonight, but I dont want to even though I know we will probably have sex, since I already took care of things on my own

I'm going to feel like an a-hole if I blow her off, and I know she will be hurt because she's one of the only women who I've ever met who finds me attractive. She even says I could do modeling. Only problem is, she's very overweight, to the point of unattractiveness. She even said to me "I'm probably not your type since I'm so fat" I feel bad, like I'm taking what I can get since most girls wont even give me a second look, even though I know I shouldn't have standards since most women find me repulsive physically speaking

Has any other guy felt like this? Where you do something sexual with a girl, and then as soon as you do, you're over her? I even told her I'm NOT looking for a relationship though

I don't know, maybe I'm afraid to get too close to somebody again
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Old 01-18-2013, 12:52 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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*arrggh* Why did you get into the sexting, if you didn't find her attractive? That's how you avoid being a douche. You control yourself, and don't let a situation get out of ...um... "hand" in the first place.
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Old 01-18-2013, 12:55 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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>Hot.

>Sexting session.

I found your problem.
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Old 01-18-2013, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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*arrggh* Why did you get into the sexting, if you didn't find her attractive? That's how you avoid being a douche. You control yourself, and don't let a situation get out of ...um... "hand" in the first place.
I got into it because no one else will....
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Old 01-18-2013, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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There is so much fail in this OP. From what I gather, you basically whacked the sausage to pictures of a nasty fat chick and now you feel bad for not wanting to chill.

You should feel bad for whacking your sausage to an ugly fat chick.

Rethink your life.
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Old 01-18-2013, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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There is so much fail in this OP. From what I gather, you basically whacked the sausage to pictures of a nasty fat chick and now you feel bad for not wanting to chill.

You should feel bad for whacking your sausage to an ugly fat chick.

Rethink your life.
These days, I dont have a choice. My whole life, its seemed like only the "fat" ones like me anyways. So I've just decided to take what I can get since the more fit girls with normal bodies give me a look of contempt even if I as much as smile at them
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Old 01-18-2013, 01:08 PM
 
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Better hope she doesn't show your one-handed texts all over the office.

My lord. Such idiocy. Is common sense just not hip and cool anymore?
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Old 01-18-2013, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I recently met a girl who works at the same company as me, we don't work together as we work in different locations though

We got into a pretty hot sexting session last night, and even though I havent slept with her, lets just say I took care of matters myself since she couldn't be there

Now I'm suddenly not interested in her anymore. She wants to hang out tonight, but I dont want to even though I know we will probably have sex, since I already took care of things on my own

I'm going to feel like an a-hole if I blow her off, and I know she will be hurt because she's one of the only women who I've ever met who finds me attractive. She even says I could do modeling. Only problem is, she's very overweight, to the point of unattractiveness. She even said to me "I'm probably not your type since I'm so fat" I feel bad, like I'm taking what I can get since most girls wont even give me a second look, even though I know I shouldn't have standards since most women find me repulsive physically speaking

Has any other guy felt like this? Where you do something sexual with a girl, and then as soon as you do, you're over her? I even told her I'm NOT looking for a relationship though

I don't know, maybe I'm afraid to get too close to somebody again
Your way out! Tell her that you don't date coworkers and what you did was a mistake but that you really do like her. Tell her that your sorry for doing what you did and you would appreciate it if you could just put it in the past. Delete all of your text messages and don't whack it to people you don't like. I don't know why anyone would whack it to texts these days with the internet, but to each their own.
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Old 01-18-2013, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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These days, I dont have a choice. My whole life, its seemed like only the "fat" ones like me anyways. So I've just decided to take what I can get since the more fit girls with normal bodies give me a look of contempt even if I as much as smile at them
Wow. How about you just be better looking and more confident?
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Old 01-18-2013, 01:13 PM
 
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Your way out! Tell her that you don't date coworkers and what you did was a mistake but that you really do like her. Tell her that your sorry for doing what you did and you would appreciate it if you could just put it in the past. Delete all of your text messages and don't whack it to people you don't like. I don't know why anyone would whack it to texts these days with the internet, but to each their own.
remind me to never borrow a single loser's phone.
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