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holy crap you guys are fast.Thanks so much. So just leave the topic alone even if they never bring it up? It is kind of hard not knowing where you stand with someone you really care about; but I guess that comes with experience?
I disagree with CJ. It has nothing to do with "being the man!" or "being insecure". Communication is key and you weren't doing anything wrong about communicating your thoughts. They just didn't want a serious relationship. A lot of college aged kids don't so don't think you're doing something wrong. Once you get into the mindset of playing games you'll end up finding that things don't go how you think they will since people aren't mind readers.
I disagree with CJ. It has nothing to do with "being the man!" or "being insecure". Communication is key and you weren't doing anything wrong about communicating your thoughts. They just didn't want a serious relationship. A lot of college aged kids don't so don't think you're doing something wrong. Once you get into the mindset of playing games you'll end up finding that things don't go how you think they will since people aren't mind readers.
So they don't want to hang out anymore because they know what my intent originally was (to start a relationship)?
It sounds like you were getting to whiny about it. That's an instant attraction killer.
Guys shouldn't be asking where the relationship stands. That's a chick thing to say. It sounds VERY needy and validation seeking coming from a guy.
Next time, have fun with it. Smile, look her dead in the eyes, and say "I want to be exclusive." It'll work.
Where does our relationship stand?
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