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In general, I think its sad that a guy thinks that no woman would be willing to share her body with him unless he paid her in cash. How demoralizing
But, paying for it is the only way some guys will ever get laid. So it is what it is
Yes and yes. It is sad, but the truth is that some guys are so unattractive and/or socially inept that they can't find a sexual partner without paying her.
In general, I think its sad that a guy thinks that no woman would be willing to share her body with him unless he paid her in cash. How demoralizing
But, paying for it is the only way some guys will ever get laid. So it is what it is
On the flip side, going to a professional can get a man the best sexual experience he may have in his life. And that's just the tip of the iceberg.
What it really boils down is that we live in a very puritanical society in America that looks down on consensual activity that has been accepted and widespread in many places throughout history - even among royalty and nobility in other countries. Our values are rather unrealistic and silly really. But I guess it is what it is too.
People are going to judge you and look down on you if you do hire the services of an escort.
People are going to judge you and look down on you if you are still a virgin past your 20s.
IMO, you need to keep your sexual status to YOURSELF. Always use a condom so you avoid diseases and unwanted pregnancies.
This...people are always going to have their opinion...People are very myopic when they've already developed views about one thing, so you've got to realize you're getting black and white answers...Some people have been conditioned to look down on anything outside of traditional courtship and the ensuing sex. Others have rationalized risking life and limb to have risky one night stands in their own minds, while shunning sex with prostitutes. They'll call it "getting lucky", "getting laid", "hooking up at the bar" or some other disassociating term. But the truth is, if they have no problem with those sexual circumstances, then truthfully they endorse having sex whenever they can get it -- with the only difference being that they've developed codewords to rationalize it. But if you have an objective, you have to be solution oriented. Im not telling you to visit a prostitute or not to, but if your objective is to have sex, then pragmatically, you may have to do what it takes to make that happen. Anything more than that is yourself, or other people projecting their moral compass onto what they want to see everyone else doing. They'll tell you no one will want you or you might catch aids or whatever else. But truthfully, that could happen anyway. In addition to the fact that there are people doing FAR more perverse things than having sex with some chick they dont know.
Furthermore, if you really think you'll be looked down upon because you have sex with a prostitute, then 90% of men AND women are already in a position to be looked down upon. Dont be reckless, but dont be naive either. If you really think women your age are sitting around twiddling their thumbs in their chasity belts worried about what YOU or their future boyfriend will think of THEM because of their sexual history, then you're living in the stoneage...Most people have stepped into civilization and realize that people are going to have sex, and they're going to do what it takes to do it. Whether that be watching porn, having sex in public, having sex with a nontraditional partner, or any other variant of intercourse.
Lastly, if you think you're going to be some kind of lone outcast for paying for sex, or if you dont think 90% men are going or have gone to strip clubs AND PAID FOR SEXUAL ATTENTION, or are going to porn shops and paying for sexual gratification, then you've got a lot to learn. The truth is you're about like most men, who will never admit that sex for them largely comes down to some sort of transaction. Whether that transaction be buying drinks in a club for a one night stand, arranging a date, or paying strippers for a peak and a feel. The only difference is that theyve been conditioned to suddenly turn squeamish when speaking about a direct transaction without the middleman.
To make out they can pull a hot chick without paying for it, makes them feel better about themselves - it's all an illusion though because no-one really gives a rats anyway.
People are posting sex tapes of themselves all over the place, and having sex with farm animals, and you're supposed to be shamed into abstaining from regular-people-sex with a prostitute?...literally, one of the oldest, most traditional forms of sex that exists....lol..more like, grow up, make your own decisions, think for yourself and do whats best for you, not what others think is best for you.
Last edited by soletaire; 05-06-2013 at 04:26 PM..
To make out they can pull a hot chick without paying for it, makes them feel better about themselves - it's all an illusion though because no-one really gives a rats anyway.
But some people would never be able to do it though.
Yes and yes. It is sad, but the truth is that some guys are so unattractive and/or socially inept that they can't find a sexual partner without paying her.
I think it's sad that some people can't get someone to make them a meal without paying for it.
I think it's sad that some people can't get someone to give them a massage without paying for it.
Are these different?
Why?
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