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Old 01-29-2013, 10:55 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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I've been seeing this guy for almost three weeks now and things are doing fine. I like him and I can tell that he likes me too. We talk everyday and everything has been great exept for some comments that he said last night that was kinda bothering me.

Last week, he mentioned something about bringing my single friends when we hang out and he would bring his single guy friends as well. Last night, he asked me again if I have some single friends that we could introduce to his guy friends. I told him I do. He asked if I could send a picture of them. I told him I will have to ask my friends first if its ok because its not my picture. Anyway, I ended up just telling him that we just bring out our friends and introduce them to each other then I asked him why does he need to see a picture for? His replied was, "because if theyre ugly Im never gonna hear the end of it from them and I will probably have to pay for the entire night, which I dont want to do". I decided not to send him any pictures but I told him to just check my facebook. We added each other on facebook and he saw the pictures I have on there. This is when I kinda got upset. I asked him if he saw the pictures. His text said, "yes, cute pictures of you but didnt really see cute friends ."

Did he say my friends were ugly? I think my friends are cute. This guy really finds me attractive. Do you guys think that he was hoping that my friends were like me thats why he wanted me to introduce them to his friends? Im ot sure if I should keep seeing him despite the comment he said about my friends. He didnt exactly say my friends were ugly but the meaning was kinda like that. What do you guys think? So far, hes been treating me well and I like spending time with him.
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Old 01-29-2013, 10:59 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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You've written about this guy before. He doesn't sound like a winner. This ^^ doesn't bring him any closer to sounding like a winner. He's not the only guy in your entire life who will find you attractive, you know. I think you should move on and find a nicer, no-drama guy. He was saying your friends don't measure up to his and his friends' standards. This, and other things you've posted about him, make him sound like a spoiled primadona type.
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:02 PM
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Location: Pullman, Chicago
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Sounds like he's 18 or so. HS stuff, no?
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:03 PM
 
Location: Northeast Texas
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That is just weird. I don't know why he would care about how they look in the first place. Have you asked yourself this, "If my friends were cute, would he go after them instead of me?". He sounds very shallow. He might think they're just average-looking girls to him and not necessarily ugly.

I personally would not like it if my girl asked me if I had any cute guys, why should she care about that if she would want me in the first place?

Just weird.
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:06 PM
 
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Lmao.
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:07 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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That is just weird. I don't know why he would care about how they look in the first place. Have you asked yourself this, "If my friends were cute, would he go after them instead of me?". He sounds very shallow. He might think they're just average-looking girls to him and not necessarily ugly.

I personally would not like it if a girl asked me if I had any cute guys, why should she care about that if she would want me in the first place?

Just weird.
He wanted to introduce them for his cute guy friends. Not for himself. He told his friends about me.
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:08 PM
 
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Sounds weird.
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:38 PM
 
Location: Northeast Texas
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He wanted to introduce them for his cute guy friends. Not for himself. He told his friends about me.
I'm sorry for the misunderstood in my previous post. Please disregard it.

Although, I still think that's really weird.
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:41 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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I'm sorry for the misunderstood in my previous post. Please disregard it.

Although, I still think that's really weird.
Why? Just wondering.
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:53 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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It's not weird, it's common but the guy sounds like a dork anyway.
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