Women like bad boys and dangerous men. Fact or fiction? (attractive, attraction)
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Total fiction...for me! Why women would want the pretty bad guy that treats them like $h!t, I'll never know. I'll take the humble, shy, nerd who treats me like a queen any day...because I deserve it!
"Why women would want the pretty bad guy that treats them like $h!t, I'll never know." Some woman don't know any better. Some women with abusive or no fathers seek out or get stuck with abusive men. Some woman just have bad luck.
I think women and many men like exciting and interesting people, not neccesarely bad or dangerous. Many Bad or dangerous men can be exciting though
Nah, "dangerous" guys are lame.
The only things that might make some of them appear attractive are their confident and independent attitude, and the fact that they are the total opposite of a needy suck-up.
But me and all of my friends think that a kind and charming guy with a healthy dose of self-love and confidence is way sexier than anything else - and yes, we have all felt sexually attracted to boyfriends like that over several years in the past.
It's when a guy acts all careful and becomes "afraid to say something that annoys the girl a little" that he loses his sex appeal.
There's nothing sexier than a guy who can take initiative without thinking so much, and who has the ability to tease you a bit in a playful way.
I dont think attractivness has anything to do with it. Physical appearance means only so much to women, and is usually a #3 or #4 requiremet on their personal list of what they respond to in a possible mate. There are attractive and unattractive bad boys and nice guys. Its more about attraction to that individual, which is based more on bahavior rather than looks. A woman who finds a bad boy attractive, but doesnt think he is a relationship material, will usually sleep with him right away. Of course when we talk about bad boys and nice guys we are thinking of extremes, when in reality most guys fall somewhere in between on that spectrum. I do agree witht he second part of your post.
I don't think that any of us guys are the authority figure on what women like/ want. Women change just as guys do. What they might like at one age, they might not like at another. But do I really know what women like in general? NO! And I never will! These answers are better suited to women and women only. Since it is women who we are talking about. I think that they would know much more so than us guys what it is that they like.
At times in my life when I would get in trouble it would sometimes revolve around the notion that I knew what my girl wanted more than she did. At each and every one of these times, I was dead wrong.
Oddly enough, they make their new guy wait for sex and walk around with blue balls for 90 days or some other nonsense, precisely because he is relationship material. THats real world stuff.
I distinctly remember you saying you prefer not to sleep with a woman right away if you think she's relationship material; you want to get to know her. You'll sleep with others right away.
You sure you're not a woman? You do know so much about us after all.
Endless attacks on Ascension2012 without any evidence to refute what he and I are saying.
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