Would she lie about being pregnant? (after one night stand) (separate, looking)
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ohwow. i figured she would text them to you. i wouldnt advise her going to your house. at this point, the way u made her out to be unstable and untrustwrthy, i wouldnt even think the Dna test would be a good idea because she could tamper with the results.
SttResident, yeah its easy, but i was thinking an ultrasound with the date, her name and the medical place she had her ultrsaound supposedly done at. i would think that would be harder to provide.
She did reply eventually to say that she could provide them. and do i want her to mail them or bring them over. but at this point i'm going to tell her i don't even want to see them because i don't think it's mine. and if she wants anything else from me to contact me in 9 months so we can get a DNA test to prove its mine. otherwise I don't want any contact with her. we'll see how she reacts to this...
Did you take our collective advice and call a family law attorney? Because I don't think the conversations you're having with this woman are very wise at all.
Yeah, I realize that she's probably a whackjob. But she can either be the whackjob with whom you have reasonably cordial relations with until she delivers the child and paternity can be proved, or you can continue doing and saying the things you just described and ensure that things get really, really hostile. Right now, you're practically guaranteeing a seriously messy outcome.
Is there a possibility that condom broke? If so, she could have been pregnant. Don't rule it out completely. She could be an unstable person, she could even be mentally ill or confused, but she could also get pregnant by you. No need to beat yourself up at this point for your poor judgment or decision, you need to figure out a way to deal with it.
First of all, do not do things with this woman alone. Even if she suggest you pay for her abortion, do not deal with her alone. There is a DNA test can determine the father of the fetus (I don't know what it calls) but it is rather painless, easy procedure. You do not have to wait for so long.
I honestly do not believe an attorney can help you at this point. If this woman is pregnant with YOUR child and she has no desires getting an abortion, what are you going to do?
Did you take our collective advice and call a family law attorney? Because I don't think the conversations you're having with this woman are very wise at all.
Yeah, I realize that she's probably a whackjob. But she can either be the whackjob with whom you have reasonably cordial relations with until she delivers the child and paternity can be proved, or you can continue doing and saying the things you just described and ensure that things get really, really hostile. Right now, you're practically guaranteeing a seriously messy outcome.
I'm not sure why you think my interactions are unwise. I haven't said anything incriminating or that would otherwise imply that I accept responsibility as the father. Furthermore, on countless occasions she has said that she places zero liability or responsibility on me. So I don't see the harm in cordially saying that I think it is best if we discontinue contact. I almost think continuing to have any type or interaction with her is tantamount to admitting that I agree that the child is mine.
I'm not sure why you think my interactions are unwise. I haven't said anything incriminating or that would otherwise imply that I accept responsibility as the father. Furthermore, on countless occasions she has said that she places zero liability or responsibility on me. So I don't see the harm in cordially saying that I think it is best if we discontinue contact. I almost think continuing to have any type or interaction with her is tantamount to admitting that I agree that the child is mine.
she might say it now, but legally, if you are the father, you are financially responsible for this child.
she might say it now, but legally, if you are the father, you are financially responsible for this child.
Yes, I totally realize that but at the time if we get a DNA test and I'm the father, that;s the reality I'll deal with. Until then, I'd prefer not to have any interaction with her at all. I think taking this route might lead to her coming clean, or telling me she had an abortion or miscarriage, so that she can continue her interaction with me. And then I would know for sure. If not, at least I can spend the next 9 months without her in my life in any way, shape or form.
Yes, I totally realize that but at the time if we get a DNA test and I'm the father, that;s the reality I'll deal with. Until then, I'd prefer not to have any intera
ction with her at all. I think taking this route might lead to her coming clean, or telling me she had an abortion or miscarriage, so that she can continue her interaction with me. And then I would know for sure. If not, at least I can spend the next 9 months without her in my life in any way, shape or form.
make sure you dont sign the child's birth certificate. My bro signed it knowing the kid is not his. He signed anyway because the mother said, "Do me a favor." He stuck with child support
I'm not sure why you think my interactions are unwise. I haven't said anything incriminating or that would otherwise imply that I accept responsibility as the father. Furthermore, on countless occasions she has said that she places zero liability or responsibility on me. So I don't see the harm in cordially saying that I think it is best if we discontinue contact. I almost think continuing to have any type or interaction with her is tantamount to admitting that I agree that the child is mine.
Let me review:
1) You've already demanded evidence.
2) You've already contested the child is not yours in the absence of any proof. You might as well have put up a billboard by her house that read, "Nine Months' Forecast: Lawsuit."
3) By saying you now don't want to see them, you're muddying the waters. Might as well pretend that you're halfway interested at least for her welfare. That way things don't get bad until they have to.
Seriously. Call a family law attorney. Now.
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