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Originally Posted by Alicant310
ROTFL!!! The first go around was ok. but its been over a year..i see what youre saying, i just dont feel that way about it. It's LA..too many people out there to choose from.
but she remembers every detail of our conversations. i mean every detail. Somethings got to be keeping her back from meeting new people.
I dont want to read too deep into those details though. just not interested
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I really do not think she is a stalker…at all..
I think she has “gone on with her life” , perhaps has dated others and it has not worked out and you come to mind and she wants to hang out again.
I think you have not send the “right” message …being that when she has called in the past it has resulted in you two getting together ( even if it has just been for conversation.)
This may have led her to believe that you are a friend of sorts..
Stalkers do not give up, they are relentless, they blow your phone up, they stalk you on FB , they send you thousands of unwanted texts regardless if you answer or not..:/
They drive by your house, they drive by your work, they are everywhere you turn..:/
They even join the same gym you have a membership too.:/
The next time she calls? Save her number and when she calls you are prepared..just be polite and decline any advances she may make of getting together and soon enough she will get the hint.
As far as her remembering “details” of everything you two have talked about? Nothing “stalkerish” about this…
I meet many people through my work..complete random strangers, as I am conducting an exam they may share that they recently lost a family member, They have been in the hospital, they have dogs ect…
In my previous positions I have had to actively listen to clients since I could not always “write” everything down..So my memory is pretty sharp..
Goodness gracious I recall conversations I have had with people that extend years back, some people are just like this…Nothing to read into..
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Originally Posted by straight shooter
Most of us clearly agree that she is not a stalker so why go to the extreme of blocking her number and avoiding her and the issue. Since the beginning, she clearly hasn't done anything wrong or shown any aggression. He simply isn't interested in her in a romantic way. Whatever happened to being honest, truthful, and sincere. Why can't he just explain to her in a nice way that he is not interested and if she calls in the next six months to a year big deal.  |
I agree with Tao dude…He also mentioned saving her name and number this way he can be prepared when she calls if it bothers him that much..
I agree with you also in the regard that she is not a stalker but having gone through this myself? It gets annoying..
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