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Old 01-31-2010, 07:12 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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me:

34
streak : close to 800 days

status: beta male

how about you alphas, women, and betas? Remarkably, I haven't completely lose my will to live, and am even going to take a foreign language class starting next week.
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Old 01-31-2010, 07:15 AM
 
Location: Durham, NC
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47, 16 years and counting ...
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Old 01-31-2010, 07:25 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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47, 16 years and counting ...

wow

i think I'll shut up now, but care the explain the circumstances?

Are you married and in a sexless marriage? Are you a beta male? What gives?
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Old 01-31-2010, 07:50 AM
 
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I think this is a very interesting thread, so I will keep my eye on it. But, seriously how many people r going to admit their not getting any? And Superk 16 years is a long time. Why r u crying about 16 years of "none" when u could do something about it? Nonetheless, u have my respect. betamanlet why 800 days? As long as u like what ur doing it is all good...
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:01 AM
 
Location: Durham, NC
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wow

i think I'll shut up now, but care the explain the circumstances?

Are you married and in a sexless marriage?
Yes (actually technically separated). She's disabled and has been for a long time. I've been a Spousal Caregiver for a long time. The combination of depression, medications, mood and personality changes, and the actual physical inability have completely destroyed that concept. And, to dispel a myth, married men do NOT ever get hit on, and an affair or a "friend with benefits" arrangement is virtually impossible (when you are trapped at home day in and day out and can't leave, even for brief periods of time, then your chances of even meeting people are very slim).
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:03 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Yes (actually technically separated). She's disabled and has been for a long time. I've been a Spousal Caregiver for a long time. The combination of depression, medications, mood and personality changes, and the actual physical inability have completely destroyed that concept. And, to dispel a myth, married men do NOT ever get hit on, and an affair or a "friend with benefits" arrangement is virtually impossible (when you are trapped at home day in and day out and can't leave, even for brief periods of time, then your chances of even meeting people are very slim).

i know tons of women who have banged married guys. but being trapped at home would prevent that.
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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809 days (had to do the math, don't really ponder it much anymore).

Loveless marriage, staying for my son. I'M the one who actually put the brakes on sex after she tried to trick me into getting her pregnant again, lying about birth control and getting caught.


EDIT -- had to correct my math, forgot to count from November through the end of the year!
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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i know tons of women who have banged married guys. but being trapped at home would prevent that.
I think that we could be a bit more sympathetic on this one!
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:34 AM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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I decided to become celibate around 2006. Have been since and I love it...without having to worry about dating and sex I can get so much accomplished. It feels like a big weight was lifted off my back.
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:42 AM
 
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Yes (actually technically separated). She's disabled and has been for a long time. I've been a Spousal Caregiver for a long time. The combination of depression, medications, mood and personality changes, and the actual physical inability have completely destroyed that concept. And, to dispel a myth, married men do NOT ever get hit on, and an affair or a "friend with benefits" arrangement is virtually impossible (when you are trapped at home day in and day out and can't leave, even for brief periods of time, then your chances of even meeting people are very slim).
Wow, I am really impressed with your commitment to your wife. I am sure it can't be easy doing what you do. Maybe u can get an internet friend just to talk and kind of hang out without leaving home. U have my respect twice over
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