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Old 03-14-2013, 08:33 PM
 
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My ex-girlfriend admitted to me that she had incest back in the day with her younger uncle and cousin. She re-found me on Facebook and now she wants me to hang out with her. But I don't know if i should. What do you all think?

Here’s a little bit of background.

One day my girlfriend and I were in a room full of friends. My friend had a really dumb ass idea at the time. He wants everybody to talk about their sex life and not be judgmental of others, and I was like hell let's do it! To make a long story short he brought up incest. Pretty much everyone in the room admitted to incest, but me. When my girlfriend admitted to me that she slept with her younger uncle and her cousin I was disgusted and pissed. The following day I became distant with her, and stopped talking to her all together. Now she found me on Facebook and wants me to hang out with her. Do you all think I should and why.

This happened in my early twenties. I'm not trying to be judgmental of other people but I think it's just sick. Out of all the people you can have sex with, why your cousin and your uncle? I would tell you everything she said but this is a family forum, just know it's sick.

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Old 03-14-2013, 08:39 PM
 
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If it bothered you back then and it still bothers you, then I would avoid contact with her. If you start talking to her and see her in person you might get caught up in something that you might regret later.
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Old 03-14-2013, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Xanadu
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Let by-gones be by-gones my friend
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Old 03-14-2013, 08:41 PM
 
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My ex-girlfriend admitted to me that she had incest back in the day with her younger uncle and cousin. She re-found me on Facebook and now she wants me to hang out with her. But I don't know if i should. What do you all think?

Here’s a little bit of background.

One day my girlfriend and I were in a room full of friends. My friend had a really dumb ass idea at the time. He wants everybody to talk about this sex life and not be judgmental of others, and I was like hell let's do it! To make a long story short he brought up incest. Pretty much everyone in the room admitted to incest, but me. When my girlfriend admitted to me that she slept with her younger uncle and her cousin I was disgusted and pissed. The following day I became distant with her, and stopped talking to her all together. Now she found me on Facebook and wants me to hang out with her. Do you all think I should and why.

This happened in my early twenties. I'm not trying to be judgmental of other people but I think it's just sick. Out of all the people you can have sex with, why your cousin and your uncle? I would tell you everything she said but this is a family forum, just know it's sick.
Is this a crime that didn't get reported, or....not?
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Old 03-14-2013, 08:43 PM
 
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I think you're being judgmental, but you are what you are. If it disgusts you then don't hang out with her, to thine own self be true.
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Old 03-14-2013, 08:55 PM
 
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Pretty much everyone in the room admitted to incest, but me.
???? gotta ask...incest to what degree? just cousins touching each other? guess I refuse to believe incest is so rampant.
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Old 03-14-2013, 08:57 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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My ex-girlfriend admitted to me that she had incest back in the day with her younger uncle and cousin. She re-found me on Facebook and now she wants me to hang out with her. But I don't know if i should. What do you all think?

Here’s a little bit of background.

One day my girlfriend and I were in a room full of friends. My friend had a really dumb ass idea at the time. He wants everybody to talk about this sex life and not be judgmental of others, and I was like hell let's do it! To make a long story short he brought up incest. Pretty much everyone in the room admitted to incest, but me. When my girlfriend admitted to me that she slept with her younger uncle and her cousin I was disgusted and pissed. The following day I became distant with her, and stopped talking to her all together. Now she found me on Facebook and wants me to hang out with her. Do you all think I should and why.

This happened in my early twenties. I'm not trying to be judgmental of other people but I think it's just sick. Out of all the people you can have sex with, why your cousin and your uncle? I would tell you everything she said but this is a family forum, just know it's sick.
you never said whether this was voluntary or involuntary on her part? I agree with someone else, just move on and don't talk to her then.
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Old 03-14-2013, 09:04 PM
 
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don't be a tool and reconnect with her if you still can't get over it , which seems to me you still have issues with her and her youthful indiscretion, as they call it.

Plus, we are missing some important facts i think, like how old were you when you dated her? how long did you date? did she know you were breaking up over it? how long has it been since you broke up? how old was she when it occurred?... and all the other juicy details that let us make a more informative decision as to whether it's too sick to get over it.... inquiring minds want to know

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Old 03-14-2013, 09:19 PM
 
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don't be a tool and reconnect with her if you still can't get over it , which seems to me you still have issues with her and her youthful indiscretion, as they call it.

Plus, we are missing some important facts i think, like how old were you when you dated her? how long did you date? did she know you were breaking up over it? how old was she when it occurred?... and all the other juicy details that let us make a more informative decision as to whether it's too sick to get over it.... inquiring minds want to know
ok'
she was 19
I was 23
i had just met her at the time, i'd say 2mo before she told me that.
No she didn't know we were breaking up. I just stopped talking to her.


the younger uncle was 30-31 years old.
and her cousin was about 25 years old.
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Old 03-14-2013, 09:21 PM
 
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ok'
she was 19
I was 23
i had just met her at the time, i'd say 2mo before she told me that.
No she didn't know we were breaking up. I just stopped talking to her.


the younger uncle was 30-31 years old.
and her cousin was about 25 years old.
She was 19 at the time of the incest? Was it consensual or was she coerced? I think all that factors in...
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