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Of course I care about his happiness - I find that an odd question.
I won't be happy always making ME happy, it makes me happy for him to be happy. This only works well because he is the same way.
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I'm always striving for win win situations because I want both of us to be happy. I care his happiness almost as much as my own. But knowing he's happy makes me happy too.
How could you be in a relationship and not care about your loved ones happiness? I also find this an odd question. My husband's happiness is always paramount in my mind.
I don't have a current significant other, but when I love someone, I am as invested in my happiness as I am in my own. Otherwise, what's the point? It's just part and parcel of being someone's partner and caring about their welfare.
Tons of people don't care about their SO's happiness.
While I realize it's completely anecdotal, I do not know a single person in my life that's in a relationship that doesn't care about their SO's happiness. If you don't care about someone's happiness, that's not even a friendship, let alone a relationship.
I guess it's just a completely bizarre concept to me. Much like many of the other posters, my SO being happy actually increases my own happiness and vice-verse.
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