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My ideal:
accepts me for me - I come with a couple dogs, a pony, a kid, a long hobby list & country girl thinking
deals with me in a bad mood
celebrates with me in a great mood
communicates - I don't like to fight, and would rather come to a reasonable compromise
enjoys time together and time apart - knows importance of independence
sense of humor
can stand up to my BS
can tolerate me standing up to his BS
can be a goofball with me and find fun in just about every situation
enjoys food, drinks and good times
doesn't live a life of sloppy eating habits or couch potato
adventurous personality with homebody qualities
Looks:
takes care of his teeth
moderately tall - prefer 5'9-6'0 range
more slender build - like meat on the bones, but in reasonable shape
dark hair
fair skinned
other:
I am a "size does matter" kind of girl
orally talented
stamina - no 30 min and under quickies for me
can keep up with me sexually
For me morals trump everything else. Too many people look at superficial things like looks, height or income instead of morals.
I am a moral person and yes I am rigid. I will only date someone who is religious, VERY high morals (no sleeping around, divorced with kids, or out of wedlock babies will be accepted). The problem is most people are not moral and the amount of people I find lacking my morals versus someone with them is high. However I did find someone with my morals. In fact he attacks online dating sites as cesspools for sleazy people and thinks sex should be sacred.
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Originally Posted by Idon'tdateyou
As long as they continue to contact me on dating sites I will keep judging them. Then people wonder why society is in terrible shape, because people don't stick together anymore.
My husband walked out on my son and I for another woman, so *I* am the one with bad morals per your judgment?
It's cool if you're not into kids, just be honest about that. But, don't you dare wave the moral flag and belittle me (or those like me) because I am a divorcee with a kid. I didn't ask for my situation, but I certainly wasn't going to stick around while my husband went off to play house with another woman.
Yeah everyone has their own wants or not wants but I also was offended by the don'tdateyou declaring divorced folks were "immoral." That is such a arg, judgmental statement. Besides lacking in any compassion - and she is a Christian? Hum, odd.
My husband was divorced because his ex-wife kicked him to the curb after 9 years of marriage and three children. He was deeply devastated. She simply didn't want "him" anymore no matter how much he begged. I had to wipe many a tear from my sweetheart's eyes while we were dating, which was two years after his divorce was final, so I was actually outraged by the don't date you's statement of "immoral divorces or divorcees." Lady, how can you have no compassion!!!!!?????
My husband and I are both Christians, however in your estimate ddy, you honestly think God is snubbing my sweet husband as immoral scum because his wife divorced him? Our beloved and merciful God? Who asks us not to judge either other, this is for Him only to do? Well, as the Bible says, you shall be judged as harshly as you judge others and it won't be from us either lady....!!!! ...please forgive me but I really want to say this...You are out of your stupid mind and I think your parents have screwed with your head with their asinine, twisted version of Jesus!!!
Sorry, please believe me, it broke my heart to have to say those words to you but somebody had to. You make our loving God look cruel and your brothers and sisters in Christ look like lunatics and we have enough of that already.
So put your logs dripping with hypocrisy down, you're only adding fuel to a roaring fire!
So you don't think you're being hypocritical by not desiring a divorced man because you believe him to be immoral? Then I take it, you don't sin? Then you lie!!! A sin is a sin, lady, no matter how teeny you believe your own to be! Besides, how can my husband be the sinner because he is divorced? He was opposed to it? Can't you see that! Even if it wasn't in these circumstances does not God have enough grace to cover it? Hum, I think He does and the Bible also states that He does as well.
Last edited by GINGERSNAP1963; 04-04-2013 at 09:16 PM..
Yeah everyone has their own wants or not wants but I also was offended by the OP declaring divorced folks were "immoral." That is such a arg, judgmental statement. Besides lacking in any compassion - and she is a Christian? Hum, odd.
I'm the OP of "i'll take one perfect mate please" I never said that I try my best not to judge people I love to learn from others
My ideal:
accepts me for me - I come with a couple dogs, a pony, a kid, a long hobby list & country girl thinking
deals with me in a bad mood
celebrates with me in a great mood
communicates - I don't like to fight, and would rather come to a reasonable compromise
enjoys time together and time apart - knows importance of independence
sense of humor
can stand up to my BS
can tolerate me standing up to his BS
can be a goofball with me and find fun in just about every situation
enjoys food, drinks and good times
doesn't live a life of sloppy eating habits or couch potato
adventurous personality with homebody qualities
Looks:
takes care of his teeth
moderately tall - prefer 5'9-6'0 range
more slender build - like meat on the bones, but in reasonable shape
dark hair
fair skinned
other:
I am a "size does matter" kind of girl
orally talented
stamina - no 30 min and under quickies for me
can keep up with me sexually
Fantasy: An empathic metamorph, a la, the "Perfect Mate" of Star Trek The Next Generation fame! (It was a rare sentient being transported as property to be a 'gifted' mate to quell a war between planets).
My husband walked out on my son and I for another woman, so *I* am the one with bad morals per your judgment?
It's cool if you're not into kids, just be honest about that. But, don't you dare wave the moral flag and belittle me (or those like me) because I am a divorcee with a kid. I didn't ask for my situation, but I certainly wasn't going to stick around while my husband went off to play house with another woman.
I love kids, I hate exes. I love my money and don't want to share it with a family I had no part in starting.
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ummm hello???
I'm the OP of "i'll take one perfect mate please" I never said that I try my best not to judge people I love to learn from others 
