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I've had a number of FWB throughout the years, as well as one-night-stands. However, I have not had a F-buddy type of arrangement before, until recently.
We had sex the first time meeting, but her personality really turned me off. I believe she felt the same way, and it turned into something where she would come over, little talking, and right to business.
Anyway, after a few nights of this, I chose to end it. I suppose what I learned, is that I must have somewhat of a connection with a woman, whether FWB or a relationship. I'm over the one nighters for the most part.
I've had a number of FWB throughout the years, as well as one-night-stands. However, I have not had a F-buddy type of arrangement before, until recently.
We had sex the first time meeting, but her personality really turned me off. I believe she felt the same way, and it turned into something where she would come over, little talking, and right to business.
Anyway, after a few nights of this, I chose to end it. I suppose what I learned, is that I must have somewhat of a connection with a woman, whether FWB or a relationship. I'm over the one nighters for the most part.
That is all. I'm bored, so I thought I'd share.
You clearly want more then this loose, casual thing. It can leave some feeling empty, very understandable. Personality holds a lot of weight when with a person in every way too.
The longer a dry spell is, the more you can put up with just a strictly business approach, and it can be a better alternative to porn.
When I was a senior in high school, I remember I had a hot FWB arrangement but turned it off because I couldn't deal with the sex only approach/no emotions. As I got older, I was better able to deal with separating my emotional needs from my physical needs. It's similar to what charlie sheen says about escorts, you don't pay for the sex, you pay them to leave.
I finally experienced friends with benefits as well with a close gal pal, after we become comfortable enough to fool around for the fun of it after meeting two years ago after both of us had real bad relationships go sour and we needed the company of a kindered soul. What guy hasn't dreamt of having a screw bed buddy for the fun of it with no connections? I sure has hell wondered all my life and hoped I could get a chance for one.
We've been fooling around the last few months and it has been real enjoyable getting some goodies without all the complications but I started to feel "rejected" and "left out" because she really doesn't need or desire sex, she has almost no sex drive, especially after being rapped. She feels comfortable with me but it started to become I was screwing a corpse essentially.
I began to feel so dejected and unloved that I finally told her that we can't do intimacy anymore, its just not working for me. I"m gonna miss having fun vs spanking the one eyed snake to porn like I've had to do for years, but something about screwing around with out any feelings or emotions just finally took its toll.
Don't really know if thats a good or a bad sign for me.
I finally experienced friends with benefits as well with a close gal pal, after we become comfortable enough to fool around for the fun of it after meeting two years ago after both of us had real bad relationships go sour and we needed the company of a kindered soul. What guy hasn't dreamt of having a screw bed buddy for the fun of it with no connections? I sure has hell wondered all my life and hoped I could get a chance for one.
We've been fooling around the last few months and it has been real enjoyable getting some goodies without all the complications but I started to feel "rejected" and "left out" because she really doesn't need or desire sex, she has almost no sex drive, especially after being rapped. She feels comfortable with me but it started to become I was screwing a corpse essentially.
I began to feel so dejected and unloved that I finally told her that we can't do intimacy anymore, its just not working for me. I"m gonna miss having fun vs spanking the one eyed snake to porn like I've had to do for years, but something about screwing around with out any feelings or emotions just finally took its toll.
Don't really know if thats a good or a bad sign for me.
Sounds like the problem was her being crappy in bed moreso than the lack of emotions.
Sounds like the problem was her being crappy in bed moreso than the lack of emotions.
A bit of both, she essentially has no sex drive and it genetic as her sister, her mom and grandmother all have the same perception of sex in general, its a waste of time and would rather be doing other things. She's also extremely liberal.
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Originally Posted by lol-its-good4U
Actions without real substance behind it that counts = emptiness IMO.
Yeah, I guess I finally learned that the long and hard way. Was fun while it lasted though, but back to porn now in the meantime once again....
Actions without real substance behind it that counts = emptiness IMO.
weak. you think that has any relevance to guys who masterbate fantasy or porn? It maybe "empty" but physically satisfying, at least for the moment. No doubt, sex/intimacy combined with emotions/love is more fulfilling, but as Mic Jagger says "you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you get what you need!"
I've had a number of FWB throughout the years, as well as one-night-stands. However, I have not had a F-buddy type of arrangement before, until recently.
We had sex the first time meeting, but her personality really turned me off. I believe she felt the same way, and it turned into something where she would come over, little talking, and right to business.
Anyway, after a few nights of this, I chose to end it. I suppose what I learned, is that I must have somewhat of a connection with a woman, whether FWB or a relationship. I'm over the one nighters for the most part.
When I went in for my last reformatting, the manufacturer said there has been a recall on my unit. He told me if I don't address the issue, I will begin having these sensations he called "feelings".
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