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Old 04-10-2013, 09:16 AM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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What?! That's a slam dunk in divorce court AND he would get full custody of kids!!!

Dang!! What's up with that?!
It's her kid,and I don't want him. They're 2 peas in a pod.

 
Old 04-10-2013, 09:32 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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It's her kid,and I don't want him. They're 2 peas in a pod.

then drop the "martyr" nonsense and leave. You have no emotion invested in the well being of this kid so why play "martyr"?
 
Old 04-10-2013, 09:38 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I bet you are scared about your own future and you are just hiding behind all these noble, selfless sounding reasons.

I have a coworker, lived with his gf, some piece of work, I tell ya! She was/is on SS, diabetes, can't work, etc. It took him forever to finally kick the crazy lady out because he had a bad conscious. She moved out, now lives with her mom and dating another guy.

Don't stay with somebody for pity. That's not fair to you AND the other person.
 
Old 04-10-2013, 08:09 PM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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then drop the "martyr" nonsense and leave. You have no emotion invested in the well being of this kid so why play "martyr"?
He's almost 18 who cares...my emotions are invested in her and the dogs;
 
Old 04-10-2013, 09:09 PM
 
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LOL, staying together for the dogs. heh. People are funny.

OP, you haven't been married to this deadbeat for very long and you knew what she was when you married her, an aging, lazy pothead with a sleazy past. Let her move to a trailer park in Florida with the rest of her kind. She'll love it.

Why do you continue to hang on to this ****ty hand of cards? Throw them in and walk away. There is nothing cool about being a martyr. It's goofy.
 
Old 04-10-2013, 09:13 PM
 
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LOL, staying together for the dogs. heh. People are funny.
lol I know.

I don't know why people can't just say we're staying together because we like being married, even though my spouse is not perfect.
 
Old 04-10-2013, 09:17 PM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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LOL, staying together for the dogs. heh. People are funny.

OP, you haven't been married to this deadbeat for very long and you knew what she was when you married her, an aging, lazy pothead with a sleazy past. Let her move to a trailer park in Florida with the rest of her kind. She'll love it.

Why do you continue to hang on to this ****ty hand of cards? Throw them in and walk away. There is nothing cool about being a martyr. It's goofy.
7 years is long to me,we met 10 years ago and obviously people don't know everything about each other right away plus they do change over time.
 
Old 04-10-2013, 09:30 PM
 
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7 years is long to me,we met 10 years ago and obviously people don't know everything about each other right away plus they do change over time.
Aren't you the guy who can't even afford to drive to work because the old bag is spending all your money (in addition to what she gets from cheating the government) on herself and her addle-brained kid whom you loathe?

You do realize you have CHOICES, right?
 
Old 04-11-2013, 12:14 AM
 
Location: Olympic Pennisula, WA
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This is the "old bag" with the addled brained kid(not). I don't spend all of his money, he doesn't have any. I worked for over 30 years as an accountant, had a lumbar fusion, nerve damage and still have 4 other herniated discs. I get SSDI from all the years I worked, not SSI. I own the house, pay the utilities, taxes, insurance. He kicks in for food when we run short on cash sometimes and pays his car insurance. In fact, I just got him a newer car for free from my cousin who was getting rid of it. I'm not a lazy aging pothead and my son is not a demon seed. I worked for the money I get. 5 specialists will attest I can't do my job. He had the guts last night of accusing me of trying to contact an old boyfriend online, which was bull but maybe he should have thought about clearing his history so the person with the "addled brain" wouldn't see what he does online. BTW, hope he doesn't forget to mention that he slept with me 5 minutes after making his last post and didn't seem to mind me so much then.

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Old 04-11-2013, 12:32 AM
 
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Oh snap. Lol
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