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That's what I think,and I think when I left for those brief periods gave her a wakeup call...then again she may just be crazy enough to not care. See she's on SSDI so it would partially be like abandoning a handicap
She's not crazy enough to want you around anymore after finding your posts on here.
LOL, staying together for the dogs. heh. People are funny.
OP, you haven't been married to this deadbeat for very long and you knew what she was when you married her, an aging, lazy pothead with a sleazy past. Let her move to a trailer park in Florida with the rest of her kind. She'll love it.
Why do you continue to hang on to this ****ty hand of cards? Throw them in and walk away. There is nothing cool about being a martyr. It's goofy.
For your info, I'm not a deadbeat. I own the house and pay all the bills for it. Don't state derogatory things about people when you don't know facts. I worked for over 30 years before getting injured and getting on SSDI. I'm not aging or lazy.
I bet you are scared about your own future and you are just hiding behind all these noble, selfless sounding reasons.
I have a coworker, lived with his gf, some piece of work, I tell ya! She was/is on SS, diabetes, can't work, etc. It took him forever to finally kick the crazy lady out because he had a bad conscious. She moved out, now lives with her mom and dating another guy.
Don't stay with somebody for pity. That's not fair to you AND the other person.
He can't kick me out, it's my house which I pay for along with everything else.
Marriage has been slowly falling apart...trust issues etc. I think the only reason we're together now is,like many people,for financial reasons...
Sorry you are feeling sad about your marriage. Sometimes I think folks who have been together for a very long time forget how to communicate without being critical of each other. I am a firm believer in giving each other a lot of space from time to time..not meaning leaving each other, just space. If you are having trust issues then perhaps talking it all out with a counselor is going to be the way to go. You both have to agree to counseling and wanting the marriage to work or nothing will come back together. Remember the reasons you fell in love and why you got married then go from there. Good luck!
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Spare me
