The Difference Between a Momma's Boy and a Man Who Respects His Mother. (how to, women)
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I know a guy who visits his mommy in the nursing home up to five times a day. He's even left his dates holding the bag while he would run to the home at suppertime to make sure she was was fed "properly".
It's pathological behaviour and he wonders why he can't keep a girlfriend.
I know a guy who visits his mommy in the nursing home up to five times a day. He's even left his dates holding the bag while he would run to the home at suppertime to make sure she was was fed "properly".
It's pathological behaviour and he wonders why he can't keep a girlfriend.
Sounds more like the behavior of a man with no faith who is scared of death and scared to death of losing his mom. That's sad
A man can respect his mom without having her dictate his life. A momma's boy will let his mother roll over him just to appease her, even if it affects his other relationships. A man respecting his mom will still love his mother, appreciate her gestures and advice, but be firm in acknowledging that he is an adult who can and will make his own decisions.
I consider myself a momma's boy. My mom is bipolar and is subject to spells of extreme paranoia and/or depression, and the only person she trusts and talks to is me. I can easily spend hours a day talking to her. Am I "psychologically dependent" on her? In a way, yes. I can't just turn my back on her because society thinks that's what grown-up men should do. Being kind and being a man are not mutually exclusive. I am lucky to have an understanding wife who not only sympathizes with me but sympathizes with my mom as well.
What do you mean by no faith? He's a Christian who fervently believes in God.
Great, glad to hear it.
Faith generally gives more comfort and leaves less room for fear. Your description of your friend made him sound fearful of death and of his mother dying to me, that's all. Happy to hear that I may have misunderstood.
I consider myself a momma's boy. My mom is bipolar and is subject to spells of extreme paranoia and/or depression, and the only person she trusts and talks to is me. I can easily spend hours a day talking to her. Am I "psychologically dependent" on her? In a way, yes. I can't just turn my back on her because society thinks that's what grown-up men should do. Being kind and being a man are not mutually exclusive. I am lucky to have an understanding wife who not only sympathizes with me but sympathizes with my mom as well.
I hope you buy your wife flowers frequently and treat her very well - you are extremely lucky to have her
I consider myself a momma's boy. My mom is bipolar and is subject to spells of extreme paranoia and/or depression, and the only person she trusts and talks to is me. I can easily spend hours a day talking to her. Am I "psychologically dependent" on her? In a way, yes. I can't just turn my back on her because society thinks that's what grown-up men should do. Being kind and being a man are not mutually exclusive. I am lucky to have an understanding wife who not only sympathizes with me but sympathizes with my mom as well.
Based on what you've given us, I wouldn't consider you a "mamma's boy." Just because you dedicate time to your mom does not make you a momma's boy. When I hear the term, I tend to think of people whose moms are manipulative and their sons fall for it. In your case, your mom has a legit need and you respond to it. I'm sure that comes with its challenges and you are fortunate to have a wife who understands. I wish you well in you life situation, it's not something that everyone can relate to.
I consider myself a momma's boy. My mom is bipolar and is subject to spells of extreme paranoia and/or depression, and the only person she trusts and talks to is me. I can easily spend hours a day talking to her. Am I "psychologically dependent" on her? In a way, yes. I can't just turn my back on her because society thinks that's what grown-up men should do. Being kind and being a man are not mutually exclusive. I am lucky to have an understanding wife who not only sympathizes with me but sympathizes with my mom as well.
I believe your situation is different. When a parent has an illness the way people, especially family, responds to the illness and care is individualized. I think you are concerned and being active in your mom's care. I know society marginalizes those suffering from mental illness. I would view you more as an advocate in your mom's care than being a momma's boy.
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