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Old 04-11-2013, 09:02 AM
 
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Cheating is crappy but he's no better than her for handling it the way he did - publicly.
Why do you feel this way? I woulod think that cheating on your soon to be fiance is a bit more of a misstep than making the breakup public. Is it because she was publicly shamed for her cheating behavior? Should he have interest in upholding her image? I dont think so.

If it were me, Id simply pack my stuff up and leave FWIW.

 
Old 04-11-2013, 09:38 AM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Why do you feel this way? I woulod think that cheating on your soon to be fiance is a bit more of a misstep than making the breakup public. Is it because she was publicly shamed for her cheating behavior? Should he have interest in upholding her image? I dont think so.

If it were me, Id simply pack my stuff up and leave FWIW.

You'd think he'd have an interest in upholding his own image and publicly shaming her doesn't make him look any better.
 
Old 04-11-2013, 09:46 AM
 
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This is the sort of thing that is normal to fantasize about doing. But when you actually do it, you just look like an unstable person.
 
Old 04-11-2013, 09:54 AM
 
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I despise cheaters of both genders but why is he so sure she cheated? He just said she was seen hanging out with a friend?
 
Old 04-11-2013, 09:59 AM
 
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I think it was well deserved. I dont like cheaters, and think she deserves everything she got. I would have handled it differently, but got a good chuckle out of a cheater being exposed.

Fear of infidelity? Perhaps that explains why you tend not to get into exclusive, long-term relationships and preferred ONSs and brief hookups? And maybe that's why you're afraid to label the girl you're dating your "girlfriend"?


Out of curiosity, how and why did you find that video?
 
Old 04-11-2013, 10:02 AM
 
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Fear of infidelity? Perhaps that explains why you tend not to get into exclusive, long-term relationships and preferred ONSs and brief hookups? And maybe that's why you're afraid to label the girl you're dating your "girlfriend"?
Its not a fear, its a preference. You couldnt even begin to psycho analyze me in any manner, so there is no reason for trying. Thanks.
 
Old 04-11-2013, 10:09 AM
 
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I despise cheaters of both genders but why is he so sure she cheated? He just said she was seen hanging out with a friend?
He said she was making out with another guy named "Eric", and she did not deny making out with him.

If I had a chance to do this, hell yes. People should know about what she's done, and broadcasting it through a radio station is a great way of doing it. Icing on the cake that it gets put on Youtube.
 
Old 04-11-2013, 10:11 AM
 
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He said she was making out with another guy named "Eric", and she did not deny making out with him.

If I had a chance to do this, hell yes. People should know about what she's done, and broadcasting it through a radio station is a great way of doing it. Icing on the cake that it gets put on Youtube.
Oh I didn't watch the whole video
 
Old 04-11-2013, 10:12 AM
 
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I applaud him for what he did. If cheating was more ridiculed and had more dire consequences such as this, maybe it would throttle back the haphazard attititude that some people have towards fidelity. You can say "well, I'd take the high road and do nothing". Most bullies and others that live their lives walking on others don't respect that. If you're a door mat, then these types of people will use you as such. Stand up for yourself and you'll gain more respect. Bet the next girl thinks twice about cheating on him.
 
Old 04-11-2013, 10:18 AM
 
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I applaud him for what he did. If cheating was more ridiculed and had more dire consequences such as this, maybe it would throttle back the haphazard attititude that some people have towards fidelity. You can say "well, I'd take the high road and do nothing". Most bullies and others that live their lives walking on others don't respect that. If you're a door mat, then these types of people will use you as such. Stand up for yourself and you'll gain more respect. Bet the next girl thinks twice about cheating on him.

Bet you the next girl won't even go out with him.
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