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What does that have to do with two people breaking up?
They may not be mature emotionally healthy people who love and adore one another and excitedly plan for the birth of their child, correct?
A relationship can also cause a lot of stress, correct?
I already told you what it has to do with things - breakups are rarely pretty, they are usually ugly and stressful - something not good for the developing baby.
In addition, not sure about the relationships you are used to, but good ones rarely cause "a lot of stress".
Is it that you regret life or that you don't think she should've had you with this man?
Not being born is much more pleasing than being born. And yes, she shouldn't have had me with that bastard. She would have been much happier. One mistake (my brother) is acceptable, two mistakes is pure lack of wisdom.
Not being born is much more pleasing than being born. And yes, she shouldn't have had me with that bastard. She would have been much happier. One mistake (my brother) is acceptable, two mistakes is pure lack of wisdom.
Well, I'm not sure I have much experience with being unborn, but I'm sorry.
I think there's a lot of people who's parents are still together who often wish their parents would divorce so that they'd have more moments of peace. I knew of quite a few friends who felt that way and their parents stayed together and as a result they feel confused as to what love is, and are terribly afraid of marriage, despite wanting to be.
I already told you what stress has to do with people breaking up
No you didn't.
You stated that breaking up can cause stress, but that's different that stating what stress has to do with breaking up.
In fact, stress can cause people to break up. Since stress is bad for a an unborn child (and born children) sometimes breaking up can be good, correct?
Thus, you shouldn't feel bad for a an unborn child whose parents break up because that might actually be better for the child.
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In addition, no sure about the relationships you are used to, but good ones rarely cause "a lot of stress".
Do you believe that all relationships are 'good ones'?
If not, isn't it sometimes better for a couple to break up?
Well, I'm not sure I have much experience with being unborn, but I'm sorry.
I think there's a lot of people who's parents are still together who often wish their parents would divorce so that they'd have more moments of peace. I knew of quite a few friends who felt that way and their parents stayed together and as a result they feel confused as to what love is, and are terribly afraid of marriage, despite wanting to be.
Being unborn is the best state you find yourself at. My parents recently divorced but they stayed together in a war zone for more than 30 years. You bet nobody will catch me in a marriage. I'd rather hang myself.
No you didn't.
You stated that breaking up can cause stress, but that's different that stating what stress has to do with breaking up.
In fact, stress can cause people to break up. Since stress is bad for a an unborn child (and born children) sometimes breaking up can be good, correct?
Thus, you shouldn't feel bad for a an unborn child whose parents break up because that might actually be better for the child.
Do you believe that all relationships are 'good ones'?
If not, isn't it sometimes better for a couple to break up?
Okay, one more time for clarity since you don't seem to be getting what I am saying - the stress of a breakup is bad for the developing fetus.
Even if the mother is the one doing the breaking up, even if the father is a complete bad guy - the mother will be under a lot of stress!
Breakups are rarely easy in general - but they are especially difficult during a pregnancy.
So when/if I hear of a couple breaking up during a pregnancy I think "poor baby" for several reasons, not the least of which is its health, but including the other reasons I already gave you.
Of course not all relationships are good. Too bad a couple can't realize that BEFORE the baby is on the way. When they DO realize it once the baby is already on the way again I think, "poor baby" and wish things had been better for him/her. Sometimes a mother or father is left to pick the lessor of two evils though and just do the best they can. Glad you feel your mom did a good job.
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My parents recently divorced but they stayed together in a war zone for more than 30 years. You bet nobody will catch me in a marriage. I'd rather hang myself.
- the stress of a breakup is bad for the developing fetus.
