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There is a 16 year old honduran girl that I really love . living in honduras
I live in the east coast of the u.s but we do talk on the phone and on facebook
I am a year and half older than her . i talked to her about the way i feel and she took it very calm . she said you have to understand that we are too far apart and that i cant date someone i cant see on daily basis . i told her if i asked you out in person would you say yes . she said yes i would love to . she did say she doesnt love me , she has a boy friend that she loves and i asked her should i back off ? she said no . dont give up . give it a while until i realize if my boy friend is worth staying with or not . I told her we cant be friends . she got angry and said i really like you and you are a nice guy . but i cant date you because of the distance and I need to meet you in person and get to know you better first
On the phone she told me last night , if we dont become a couple then we can at least be best friends . i told her meh...
advice ? I cant stop thinking about her and i am worried about myself . its killing me
No. She is just seeking attention because it flatters her ego. I can tell she's not into you because of the bold parts below:
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Originally Posted by Desmond181
There is a 16 year old honduran girl that I really love . living in honduras
I live in the east coast of the u.s but we do talk on the phone and on facebook
I am a year and half older than her . i talked to her about the way i feel and she took it very calm . she said you have to understand that we are too far apart and that i cant date someone i cant see on daily basis . i told her if i asked you out in person would you say yes . she said yes i would love to . she did say she doesnt love me , she has a boy friend that she loves and i asked her should i back off ? she said no . dont give up . give it a while until i realize if my boy friend is worth staying with or not . I told her we cant be friends . she got angry and said i really like you and you are a nice guy . but i cant date you because of the distance and I need to meet you in person and get to know you better first
On the phone she told me last night , if we dont become a couple then we can at least be best friends . i told her meh...
advice ? I cant stop thinking about her and i am worried about myself . its killing me
I would break contact with her and get on with my life if I were you. Right now it sounds like you are in danger of becoming a pest.
Take it from someone old enough to be your mother: There are a million other girls out there. Get to know someone attainable, who doesn't have a boyfriend.
Okay, in theory this post is not a troll so here goes, you asked for urgent advice, it has been given and you are now questioning said advice.
You are 16, live in the USA, are probably still in high school using your parents internet and buying treats for yourself with your allowance
**Disclaimer: the above paragraph is a guess on my part without knowing any details first hand**
You have no job, no way of going to Honduras and are not even old enough to purchase cigarettes let alone alcohol or a plane ticket to Honduras to go and get this girl who has stated she has a boyfriend and she does not love you.
She may be your first wet dream crusher but she won't be your last. Stick to the girls in your own high school or neighborhood. They are easier to access, are much cheaper on a date and are more than happy to reject you in person in front of all your friends. Learn from the experience, grow from it and move forward into adulthood and hopefully maturity.
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