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I can't speak for other guys but I don't look at a woman and go "I wonder if she meets my age requirements?". If I see an attractive female and she is single, then I'm in. I'd much rather date an older woman than a woman between the ages of 18-23. They have maturity issues most of the time, tend to play more games, have no idea what they want, and they are terrible in the bedroom. An older woman can be fun, interesting and a lot more enjoyable.
They're hitting on you because they think you're their age. They don't know you're older. What happens when you tell them you're 41, how do they react?
If you're meeting them online (how did you know the med student had washboard abs under his shirt?), the buzz online is that older women are more into sex or looking for fresh meat, rather than an LTR. Of course, most middle-aged women in online dating sites hate guys contacting them just for that. I have no idea how that rumor got started. Somebody read the wrong magazine article, or something.
Because we were making out and I put my hand under his shirt and then I had him lift it up to see that lovely sculptured piece of art.
No, none of these guys I met online. Last night we went to the El San Juan Hotel and Casino because they have live salsa and dancing in the lobby on Saturdays and I was getting a group together because I had been gone from the island for 9 months.
The Italian guy working on his doctorate I met at Starbucks near Stanford. And the other Stanford med student I met at a bar in San Francisco.
I know I contradicted myself that I look young and I do but if you look close there are some lines around the eyes. None of the guys seemed shocked. In fact last night he called me Sharon Stone a few times and I forgot to ask him what he was referring to exactly.
Ok, so you definitely don't look like you're in your 20s.
No I don't, I agree but people say it a lot. I was at a job for several months and everyone thought I was in my mid 20s until I corrected them. I was 39 then.
I was taking a 2 month class and I was 40 and this other woman was 43. Everyone thought I was 24 to 28 after studying together for 2 months and we all thought this other woman was in her 60s
I agree but it happens but the way if you are looking at pics some of them I was heavier and looked older. But yes I don't look like I am in my 20s
It happens when people spend time with me. I am a perpetual student, always off traveling, not married, no kids. I don't live the traditional life of a woman in her 40s so maybe people think I am younger.
here is a list
they know how to use a knife and fork
dance well i mean real ballroom dancing not the bump and grind
got manners
know how to dress
can teach u stuff
often have class
they wont get pregnant and guilt u into a bad marriage
chance of expensive divorce is less bek they dont want to get married
How would you know if that is correct or not? Sometimes I'll take a guy home from a club and sometimes I won't. It all depends.
Do you think the guy in Starbucks was looking for an afternoon lay? No he wasn't. In fact we never hooked up. He was hot and smart but we didn't have a lot in common and yeah it is different when you meet someone while getting work done at a coffee shop.
I think this is just another situation from POF and OKC where women have inflated ego because of tons of male idiots that do not have sense of ranges (legendary X/10). I'm sure you are ugly. I would not touch with rod women 1 minute older then myself.
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