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Old 05-15-2013, 11:37 AM
 
Location: NY
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Originally Posted by Alicant310 View Post
STD is NOT the only factor to consider. Read above
Nice dodge of the question.

I asked if you asked her about STD's, and whether you trusted her. Not whether it is the only consideration you had.

 
Old 05-15-2013, 11:39 AM
 
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Nice dodge of the question.

I asked if you asked her about STD's, and whether you trusted her. Not whether it is the only consideration you had.
Actually we both got tested after using a condom the first time.
 
Old 05-15-2013, 11:42 AM
 
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Appendix is said to have lost biological function in humans over the course of evolution, after the operation is done and appendix is removed (successfully) you have one thing less to worry because no problems with the appendix will occur again. There should be a scar left on your right side of stomach to remind you of it (bigger if you were younger, smaller if you were older, non-existent in newer times, almost as small as a single spot with the laser surgery). Snip (orphaned).
Ive heard crazy sperm bank/conceiving clinic stories...wouldnt want to go through that with anyone.

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Old 05-15-2013, 11:43 AM
 
Location: USA
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Give the guy a break, he's in his 20s. I could not imagine him saying "When I was having sexual intercourse with this woman".
 
Old 05-15-2013, 11:56 AM
 
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Like most people, we had sex, we used protection the first time. We both agreed to have test before it happened again. Everything is clear.

As far as the scar, i would never rely on another human being to be 100% truthful about something like this. I personally feel thats where society can often be so naive. You ahouldnt. in fact, i would question a girl who trusted me i had no std by word of mouth. No way. she needs to protect herself.
So, let's sum up:

- You have a bizarre, possibly fetishistic, obsession with abortion and women who have had one.

- You are equally bizarrely ignorant of the basics of what abortion involves. You think it can leave a scar or interfere with future fertility.

- You call what you are doing with this girl Mod cut: Orphaned. , cannot ask her a simple question about a scar, would not believe her answer, but you are considering having babies with her.

- You are concerned enough about STIs to get tested and asked her to do the same, but you are so ignorant about them that you think getting tested after using a condom once, and then immediately switching to condomless sex, would keep you from catching one. Plus you think that a woman whose word you do not trust is a good risk for condomless sex.

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Old 05-15-2013, 12:01 PM
 
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So, let's sum up:

- You have a bizarre, possibly fetishistic, obsession with abortion and women who have had one.

- You are equally bizarrely ignorant of the basics of what abortion involves. You think it can leave a scar or interfere with future fertility.

- You call what you are doing with this girl Snip. , cannot ask her a simple question about a scar, would not believe her answer, but you are considering having babies with her.

- You are concerned enough about STIs to get tested and asked her to do the same, but you are so ignorant about them that you think getting tested after using a condom once, and then immediately switching to condomless sex, would keep you from catching one. Plus you think that a woman whose word you do not trust is a good risk for condomless sex.
Who said anything about condomless sex? ahh...someone not paying attention tsk tsk. Condoms fail. i will use a condom until we deem it unncessary.

Call it what you want. my body my rules.

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Old 05-15-2013, 12:02 PM
 
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Who said anything about condomless sex? ahh...someone not paying attention tsk tsk. Condoms fail. i will use a condom until we deem it unncessary.

Call it what you want. my body my rules.
Did you ask her if she was on birth control?
 
Old 05-15-2013, 12:03 PM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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That's why it's "Between 2 consenting adults"
Key word is "adults". Having said that if he stops having sex with her because of an itty bitty scar, then I don't think she'll kill herself..That's just my assumption!
 
Old 05-15-2013, 12:04 PM
 
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Old 05-15-2013, 12:05 PM
 
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You implied but did not actually state, that condomless sex is in the future.

How will you decide when you are ready for bareback?
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