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I don't know what your standards are to say if they are unrealistic or not. But you should not listen to people who are not living your life and are not going to love your husband for you. You don't have to be married by a certain age. You want what you want and if it means you have to wait and you're OK with that, then so be it. Quality men don't fall out of the sky all day long. They take a little longer to find.
Thank you! I am not sure whether my list is realistic or not either. But I feel that I should be at least attracted to the guy and my heart has to feel something.
Thank you! I am not sure whether my list is realistic or not either. But I feel that I should be at least attracted to the guy and my heart has to feel something.
At the very least. There are people who think you should force yourself in order to meet THEIR idea of acceptable standards. Don't ever do it. Ever.
Most women do not have any realistic standards. As I post in my tread I going to play only in my league from now on. Problem with women is they do not know what league they belong. However I agree with OP to not to go with person she don't like.
And there is Prince_Frog who from some reason have low opinion abut him and from some odd reason try to troll any discussion about league, range, be attracted to someone.
It's absolutely true, what world do you live? The less attractive a woman is, the less standards she can have.
I think Sophie try to sell story about inner thing and beauty in eye of beholder. Actually some men by it. I hold sharp eye for that thing. Some women think no matter how they look if they approach they can choice best looking guy.
I think Sophie try to sell story about inner thing and beauty in eye of beholder. Actually some men by it. I hold sharp eye for that thing. Some women think no matter how they look if they approach they can choice best looking guy.
Woman's standards: Can never be high enough! Don't settle for anyone or compromise on anything. You are a special snowflake who doesn't have to change yourself for anyone.
Men's standards: You are too picky! Lower your standards! Stop approaching 10s! Ask out that obese woman! You aren't entitled to anything from a woman! Improve yourself so you have something to offer!
One thing what I notice people ask for opinion but none have picture of body. I would say body picture is more important then of head to understand someone league.
I am going to be 28 in a couple of months. Some people keep telling me that in order to find a guy, I need to lower my standards. However, standards are there for a reason. And I feel that my standard is low enough. How can I love someone if I am not attracted to that person or I don't admire him in some ways?! I am not looking for the most handsome guys; I do get attracted to a variety. It all depends on the chemistry.
So my questions is: What is the basic standard a girl my age should have? And should I maintain my standard? How do I know it is "low" enough? I mean even if I am unable to find the guy I want now, it only means that I haven't met him yet. It does not say anything about me setting up unrealistic standards right?
Gee, are you kidding? We are the same age and we both are young!!
Who told you to lower your standard? Why?
There are tons of good men out there will date you, don't lower your standard.
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