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I'm super bummed about it, and who else would I talk to but my CD buddies
Bought a new outfit, lookin super cute, went out to the park to meet the guy I've been seeing and he told me that he just wasn't feeling it like he had with previous girlfriends. He said he had a TON of fun with me, but saw me as more of a 'friend' than a 'girlfriend'. I told him to be brutally honest with me and he said it was because we split the tab and that I suggested dates instead of letting him do it.
I'm way more bummed about this than I thought I would be but I realized that I have ZERO idea of what to do with guys. I told him that it sucks that I have to hide all of my interests (cars, video games etc.) just to get guys to be interested in me. He agreed and said that must 'suck' to have to do that.
I'm super bummed about it, and who else would I talk to but my CD buddies
Bought a new outfit, lookin super cute, went out to the park to meet the guy I've been seeing and he told me that he just wasn't feeling it like he had with previous girlfriends. He said he had a TON of fun with me, but saw me as more of a 'friend' than a 'girlfriend'. I told him to be brutally honest with me and he said it was because we split the tab and that I suggested dates instead of letting him do it.
I'm way more bummed about this than I thought I would be but I realized that I have ZERO idea of what to do with guys. I told him that it sucks that I have to hide all of my interests (cars, video games etc.) just to get guys to be interested in me. He agreed and said that must 'suck' to have to do that.
So...guess I'm super single again
I'm so sorry about what happened to you. It just wasn't meant to be. You can and will find better. Your a decent girl with a lot to give..Someone will appreciate you..Good luck to you.
Better now, than 6 months or 1 year down the line.
This right here..
..and he sounds like he might be a bit of a control freak and power hungry, if he has already gone as far as being upset for splitting the tab and you even suggesting dates.
he said it was because we split the tab and that I suggested dates instead of letting him do it.
So he's old-fashioned. Funny that what he was objecting to is what a lot of guys here say they want women to do.
Just keep being yourself, Jet. (Like you needed us to tell you that... :-/ ) You'll find a guy who can handle an independent woman. Look at it this way; after a recent relocation and a few first dates with various people, you found one that you clicked with enough to have some significant follow-up time. That's really pretty good, compared to where you came from in CA. Even though it didn't work out, the fact that you got this far with someone should give you hope for the future.
....no? Good luck. Keep on keepin on. Keep on being brilliant, nice, funny, outgoing and you.
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