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Old 05-26-2013, 08:28 PM
 
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If a woman brings you back home after a night out, or after a date, in her room, just the two of you, is she expecting you to make a move?

At this point, does the guy really have to be oblivious to not realize what she wants? He has to at least try to make a move, right?
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Old 05-26-2013, 08:39 PM
 
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"in her room"? Does she rent and this is the only place in a small apartment to have someone over? Or is her room in a house that she has to herself and she grabbed you by the shirt, tugged you through the kitchen, down the hall, and pushed you onto the bed?
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Old 05-26-2013, 08:42 PM
 
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"in her room"? Does she rent and this is the only place in a small apartment to have someone over? Or is her room in a house that she has to herself and she grabbed you by the shirt, tugged you through the kitchen, down the hall, and pushed you onto the bed?
the times Im thinking of are either in her living room on the coach, or sitting on her bed talking. both times I didn't make a move.
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Old 05-26-2013, 08:48 PM
 
Location: San Francisco
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Barring a situation like a dorm room, studio apartment, or shared house/roommate situation where the bedroom is the only place for a bit of privacy (roommates might be watching a movie in the living room,etc), in general if a woman takes you to her bedroom that's a pretty good sign.

Living room, on the couch? Harder to say. I wouldn't assume just because you're sitting on her couch that she wants you to make a move tight then & there, though.
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Old 05-26-2013, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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Have a good time on bar night?
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Old 05-26-2013, 08:57 PM
 
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the times Im thinking of are either in her living room on the coach, or sitting on her bed talking. both times I didn't make a move.
From what I read, if you take too long to make a move, the woman might think she's not attractive to you. If you make a move too fast, there could be no next time.

Be careful.
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Old 05-26-2013, 08:58 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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This person just started chatting up some random girl they met, and 1 hour later, they were making out on the porch.
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That person was you. I got it! Pretend the room is a porch, talk for an hour, then make out.
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Old 05-26-2013, 08:58 PM
 
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Make what sort of move? Holding her hand while talking or tossing her on the floor and ravaging her body for hours?

There is a world of difference between one move and the other.
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Old 05-26-2013, 09:04 PM
 
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the times Im thinking of are either in her living room on the coach, or sitting on her bed talking. both times I didn't make a move.
What in the bloody hell is wrong with you son?
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Old 05-26-2013, 09:06 PM
 
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This person just started chatting up some random girl they met, and 1 hour later, they were making out on the porch.
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That person was you. I got it! Pretend the room is a porch, talk for an hour, then make out.

im better in spontaneous situations like the one there, moreso than a bar
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