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Old 06-04-2013, 07:34 PM
 
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so i was on this dating site recently.....i dont really log in and get to talking to people...

but this girl messaged me so i messaged her back........


i look at her profile also and see that shes looking for women, not men which kinda puzzled me. but not really.



turns out shes lesbian, or so she says....


she informed me it wasnt a joke or anything etc etc.

but she was genuinely wanting to "get to know" a guy for a change...or part of one LOL


what should i do?

btw shes gorgeous aside from the fact her hair is semi spiked and then nearly longish. not like a guy's hair style in the least bit.


killer body as well when shes not dressing like a dude in baggy clothes.
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Old 06-04-2013, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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If you're not looking for anything long term and you're attracted to her, then go for it. The whole thing sounds suspect though. Eyes wide open, public places. Don't send her pictures or money.
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Old 06-04-2013, 07:40 PM
 
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If you're not looking for anything long term and you're attracted to her, then go for it. The whole thing sounds suspect though. Eyes wide open, public places. Don't send her pictures or money.

oh absolutely!! i dont send things online. i just thought it was kinda odd, you know how your brain goes "wait what am i seeing?" THAT happened lol.


so i'll wing it from here. thanks monemi
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Old 06-04-2013, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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oh absolutely!! i dont send things online. i just thought it was kinda odd, you know how your brain goes "wait what am i seeing?" THAT happened lol.


so i'll wing it from here. thanks monemi
No problem. My first two relationships were with girls. I know a few people had labeled me a lesbian (not my label) and it was a bit hairy stepping into the heterosexual world. There's a small possibility that she is actually curious. Or someone's playing you. Eyes wide open.
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Old 06-04-2013, 08:04 PM
 
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No problem. My first two relationships were with girls. I know a few people had labeled me a lesbian (not my label) and it was a bit hairy stepping into the heterosexual world. There's a small possibility that she is actually curious. Or someone's playing you. Eyes wide open.
im hoping no one is out there messing with peoples minds. not a fun thing at all. i see we're in the same sinde of our countries. im about 40 minutes from windsor
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Old 06-04-2013, 09:08 PM
 
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Be careful.
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Old 06-04-2013, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yep I have been hit on by a lesbian. She tried to kiss me as we got our pics taken in those little boths at the beach.
Had a talk with her. Explained that I was straight. It was awkward since she was a very good friend.
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Old 06-04-2013, 09:39 PM
 
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Lesbians don't like me.

I have to remind them who has the nards....

Afterwards, they agree usually.
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Old 06-04-2013, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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I read someone's opinion that young women might be lesbians, until they need something from men, like babies and his paycheck. I'd be very wary of someone who could be a first class user.
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Old 06-04-2013, 09:52 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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btw shes gorgeous aside from the fact her hair is semi spiked and then nearly longish. not like a guy's hair style in the least bit.


killer body as well when shes not dressing like a dude in baggy clothes.
I take she's the butch instead of the femme? I wouldnt mind incorporating some O6'n in my bed.
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