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Why did she marry him then? I feel bad for the women who had abusive men but is it my problem? It's not. Why should I have to suffer because she sucks at picking a partner.
you're going to make a loving husband and compassionate father someday....
you're going to make a loving husband and compassionate father someday....
Nice personal attack not that it effects me or hurts me in any way coming from a stranger. I have no plans for marriage and definitely not kids. The idea of being a father or stepdad sends me into deep anxiety.
Nice personal attack not that it effects me or hurts me in any way coming from a stranger. I have no plans for marriage and definitely not kids. The idea of being a father or stepdad sends me into deep anxiety.
But you were going to get married and have kids what, a month ago?
It's justified to look for whatever the hell you want to look for.
Exactly. You can "want" whatever you want. You just have to realize that every limitation you create reduces the size of your dating pool, so you have to decide which things really matter to you enough to do that. If you create too many limitations, you can assure that you will remain single, so stick to the ones that are most important to you, and drop the rest. Personally, I couldn't care less about someone's level of sexual experience (as long OUR sex is good!), but if that matters to you more than other things, carry on pursuing that.
Edit: Christ, I just realized I responded to yet another years-old zombie thread. There seem to be a lot of these lately.
Really, there are a few posters in here that believe that some people should stop looking for what they want, because it's not realistic.
Well that's a different question. You asked us whether it's justified to want something, not whether it's realistic to expect that you'll get it. These are two different things.
But you were going to get married and have kids what, a month ago?
You know how much it hurts him to talk about this. For the millionth time: it wasn't planned or acted upon, just a story that begins with an ending-- lady had failing kidneys and was on dialysis (I assume), she just wanted a baby and a kidney, and he didn't, so he changed his mind and decided to marry her a couple weeks before she died. He took care of her forever those weeks.
I wouldn't date a woman who has been married and divorced. Is it fair? Probably not. But to me it shows that someone can't make a marriage work and will bail when things get rough that to me is a red flag.
And yet you broke off your engagement.
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