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Old 06-21-2013, 11:39 PM
 
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Op,flip wording around some and post it in the Politics and other controversy forum.
The responses would be very,very different.
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Old 06-21-2013, 11:41 PM
 
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Complete troll...... no normal human being thinks it's perfectly acceptable to just dump the kids to start a new life or avoid a "stigma" of being a single mother...

God.. I wish I could just post what I really think... I think the CD police would come to my house and pack up my PC if I did.........
Actually,many do.
Someone on another CD forum even thinks kids with single moms on welfare should be put in orphanages until the mothers get back on their feet. So many people,I think a majority agreed with him.
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Old 06-21-2013, 11:49 PM
 
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Actually,many do.
Someone on another CD forum even thinks kids with single moms on welfare should be put in orphanages until the mothers get back on their feet. So many people,I think a majority agreed with him.
Naw... everyone I've ever known in my life wouldn't subscribe to the callous attitude of just dumping kids like it's not the latest fashion...... nope... ain't buying it....a small minority perhaps... not the majority....

Just only happens on the bullshyt world that is CD........
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Old 06-21-2013, 11:51 PM
 
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It's more acceptable for men to dump their kids and start a new life.
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Old 06-21-2013, 11:52 PM
 
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It's more acceptable for men to dump their kids and start a new life.
It's not more "acceptable" it just happens more with men........
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Old 06-21-2013, 11:54 PM
 
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It's not more "acceptable" it just happens more with men........
There isn't such shock and horror
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Old 06-21-2013, 11:55 PM
 
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There isn't such shock and horror
Yeah... I know... I know where you were going......
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Old 06-22-2013, 12:00 AM
 
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Naw... everyone I've ever known in my life wouldn't subscribe to the callous attitude of just dumping kids like it's not the latest fashion...... nope... ain't buying it....a small minority perhaps... not the majority....

Just only happens on the bullshyt world that is CD........
In the past it was done frequently.
It still is.
If a teen mom decided to adopt her baby out,is she dumping her kid?



If they divorce,well, one of them is still basically dumping the kids.
If mom get custody,dad is dumping the kids,right?
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Old 06-22-2013, 12:08 AM
 
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In the past it was done frequently.
It still is.
If a teen mom decided to adopt her baby out,is she dumping her kid?



If they divorce,well, one of them is still basically dumping the kids.
If mom get custody,dad is dumping the kids,right?
Do I really have to spell this out... do I really...

Of course people put up kids for adoption... I get it.... divorce happens and kids get split or "dumped" as you say, just because mom gets custody, doesn't mean dad is dumping the kids.....

I was merely saying that normal, healthy people with a modicum of an organ in their skulls called a brain, doesn't dump a kid just haphazardly just because it's a stigma to have a kid without a hubbie or simply because they are bored and want to start a new life.

Normal functioning adults don't do this....
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Old 06-22-2013, 12:11 AM
 
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Fathers do it all the time....

I see no difference when a man divorces his wife and leaves the kids,because he still isn't there in the home. In effect,he IS dumping the kids.

The wife and husband should at least stay together for the kids.
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