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Old 06-21-2013, 08:54 PM
 
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"Men feel attraction, act in the attraction but don't determine whether they like you as a person or emotionally ready for a relationship until after".
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Old 06-21-2013, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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After the attraction they see if you are the type of person they want around.
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Old 06-21-2013, 08:58 PM
 
Location: At the Lake (in Texas)
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I've always heard that men fall in love with women they are attracted to; women grow to become more attracted to men they fall in love with.
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:00 PM
 
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"Men feel attraction, act in the attraction but don't determine whether they like you as a person or emotionally ready for a relationship until after".
They know, just don't want to be seen as desperate and turn them off.

Give them room to breath so to speak.

If you don't like her, you would avoid her advances from the start.
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:09 PM
 
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They know, just don't want to be seen as desperate and turn them off.

Give them room to breath so to speak.

If you don't like her, you would avoid her advances from the start.
So are you trying to say men want a relationship with every woman they are attracted to or sleep with?
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:16 PM
 
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So are you trying to say men want a relationship with every woman they are attracted to or sleep with?
I'm saying if she stood no chance we would avoid it...

Such as yesterday when one tried very very hard to put the make on me.

I danced around the subject and kept my mind on my tasks at hand.

No pick-up while on the clock....boss's rules.

She wasn't my type or in my age bracket either.


Back to work....know what I mean.
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:22 PM
 
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"Men feel attraction, act in the attraction but don't determine whether they like you as a person or emotionally ready for a relationship until after".
That is true for everyone!
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:22 PM
 
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I'm saying if she stood no chance we would avoid it...

Such as yesterday when one tried very very hard to put the make on me.

I danced around the subject and kept my mind on my tasks at hand.

No pick-up while on the clock....boss's rules.

She wasn't my type or in my age bracket either.


Back to work....know what I mean.
So basically what you're saying is if you're attracted to her there is a potential for a relationship? I ask because sometimes you can be physically attracted to someone but know right away that the person is not right for you.
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:23 PM
 
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I'm saying if she stood no chance we would avoid it...

Such as yesterday when one tried very very hard to put the make on me.

I danced around the subject and kept my mind on my tasks at hand.

No pick-up while on the clock....boss's rules.

She wasn't my type or in my age bracket either.


Back to work....know what I mean.
I know what you mean.
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:25 PM
 
Location: CA
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That's why you don't sleep with someone too soon. Make sure they are with you for deeper reasons than physical attraction.
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