No girlfriend for Kenny - can I blame the women? (sex, different)

[Kenneth-Kaunda]

Quite a few women have turned me down recently, or shown a lack of interest.

Can I blame them for this because:

1. I am a fine sort

2. Have reasonable status and looks.

So it must be their fault right?

[rlrl]

too shallow a conclusion. fine sort in what way? reasonable status and looks in what way? both descriptions are too conceptual (generalized) as opposed to operational (specific) in nature. and since everybody is different women will also have their differences in the specifics as to how you look, etc.

its like the conclusion people come to about me. they think that because i have a decent job and some money and good credit i can buy a co-op or a better car without knowing further details about my attitude toward money or my lifestyle or readiness to buy.

[rlrl]

do you mean their loss rather than their fault? fault assigns blame. are you judgmental?

[Kenneth-Kaunda]

yes, I am judgmental, and I truly believe it is their fault.

Anything wrong with that view?

[rlrl]

no, just don't turn in to a Joel Steinberg

[highlife2]

Does it matter whos fault it is? You either getting regular sex or not. If not you might want to consider lowering your standards.

[TheJagMan]

Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda

yes, I am judgmental, and I truly believe it is their fault.

Anything wrong with that view?

Victim mentality = No girlfriend for Kenny...Therefore you tell us if there's anything wrong with that view.

[TaoistDude]

Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda

Quite a few women have turned me down recently, or shown a lack of interest.

Can I blame them for this because:

1. I am a fine sort

2. Have reasonable status and looks.

So it must be their fault right?

I think the common denominator - therefore problem - is you.

Going by things you've posted, I suspect it's your self-righteous attitude that gets in your way.

[*Sixy*]

Nobody knows you here. Your posts are all contrived and you don't even fake trying to sound genuine.
Seems to me like you want the "fame" that assman and IDDY got ...your just not that controversial here.
Next time remember to really act the part in your posts. Right now all you do is start ridiculous posts so you can fan flames.

Next time develop your "character" more.

[LexWest]

What makes you entitled to these women, that they simply must choose you over another "fine sort" with "reasonable status and looks?"

A blow to the ego certainly hurts, but did it ever occur to you that you're probably not the only fish in the sea? (Wait, I know the answer.)

Try being comfortable in your own skin, instead of worrying about the ones that won't have you. It's certainly more confident than the latter, which makes one seem insecure.