Timing of sex and love in a new relationship?

[srjth]

Originally Posted by mainebrokerman

anticipaaaation,,,,,,,is making me late,,,is keeping me waiting..

nothing wrong with leading up to the moment

Hahahahaha

[Raena77]

Trust
lust
Love

[DrEarth]

I always have sex usually after a month of dating. I have never had to wait longer than that, nor would I probably wait longer. Since I will most likely never fall in love in that time frame, sex always comes first.

If I waited until I loved a woman, I'd still be a virgin.

[Lilac110]

Originally Posted by NilaJones

Which comes first, the love or the sex, for you? And how long is the gap between them?

Do you have sex for several months before you fall in love? Weeks? Days?

Do you say 'I love you' as soon as you feel it, or do you wait? If you wait, how long do you wait or what do you wait for?

Do you wait until after 'I love you's are exchanged before having sex? How long does that usually take?

What happens if one works out but not the other? If you have sex first, what happens if the sex is great but you never fall in love? If love first, what if you fall in love and the sex turns out to be terrible and unfixable?

I find these difficult to navigate in my own life so I am hoping for inspiration from y'all's experiences .

Sex first, love about three months later, prefer not to say it unless I'm pretty sure he's feeling the same way or he says it first (yeah, yeah, ), and if the sex is great but we don't fall in love, I move on after a few months or if I meet someone new and interesting, whichever happens first.