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I have only read the first page of posts but I have this to say: The heart will love who the heart will love. This girl is of legal age, and it's really no one else's business who you are involved with. Work is work, and your private life is your private life.
I don't think you are obligated to share her age or yours...if people want to make remarks, just smile and say "Lucky me" or "Don't you wish it was you" or something like that and leave it at that.
I honestly wonder what these guys are thinking... most people like someone around their same age, I mean honestly WTF would an 18 yr old want with a 40 yr old dude.
I'm 43, and I'd want nothing to do with a 21 yr old, just to slide the numbers up a bit, let alone an 18 yr old child, cause that's basically what she is, she would have zero in common with a 40 yr old guy.
I mean, lets get past the obvious sex stuff, I mean once you get past all of the physical stuff that a 18 or 21 yr old brings to the table.... the brain isn't done cooking yet... you know what I mean????
I need more.... I need more than a young girl can give me.... No offense to the nice and lovely young ladies out in the world and surely they are fine with dealing with men their own age....
And just how many "young lades" have hit on you, Chowhound?