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Old 07-29-2013, 10:06 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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22



Yes.

At 22 you're playing games like a 16 year old. If you really like this girl, stop messing with her and ask her out.
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Old 07-29-2013, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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I know this is petty, but here it goes ....

I've run this test 3 different times. This girl and I are in the same circle of friends. On each of those 3 times I told her I'd be at a party but then I didn't show up at it. And then, afterwards, on each of those 3 times, my friends told me, "Dude, Jess was wondering where you were. She kept asking about you." So this means that she was hoping to see me there, but was too shy to ask me about where I was when she didn't see me there. Good sign, right?
Sounds like she's interested in you. Are you interested in her? Stop playing these games otherwise she'll lose interest.
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Old 07-29-2013, 11:58 AM
 
Location: NYC
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jesus christ dude, did you really need to run that test more than once? you have your answer already now make a move.

she might lose interest and think you're a flake if you keep doing that
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:01 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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I know this is petty, but here it goes ....

I've run this test 3 different times. This girl and I are in the same circle of friends. On each of those 3 times I told her I'd be at a party but then I didn't show up at it. And then, afterwards, on each of those 3 times, my friends told me, "Dude, Jess was wondering where you were. She kept asking about you." So this means that she was hoping to see me there, but was too shy to ask me about where I was when she didn't see me there. Good sign, right?
are you a virgin?
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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Running the "test" three times just proves what a flake you are. You've technically stood her up three times and she may be done with you if you continue to "test" her.
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:08 PM
 
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You're so insiteful!
People act like this stuff is rocket science and its not.
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:30 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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Running the "test" three times just proves what a flake you are. You've technically stood her up three times and she may be done with you if you continue to "test" her.
OP is not testing any chick, he doesn't have a clue about when a girl is interested in him (hint anytime a girl asks if you are going to a party, the answer is yes, you will see her there!)

And he didn't go to the party because it was past his curfew, has a hard-on for internet entertainment, or he is socially awkward. His friends went to the parties and he didnt! I don't know about you, but when I was in high school/college, I hated the day after "dude, you should have been there!" talk, especially if a girl was asking about me.
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:33 PM
 
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So....you don't go to the party and you don't get the girl. Sounds like you're failing your own test!
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:40 PM
 
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OP is acting like a child. It isn't a game, it's a person. Quit ****ing with people like a little kid.
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:48 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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And he didn't go to the party because it was past his curfew, has a hard-on for internet entertainment, or he is socially awkward. His friends went to the parties and he didnt! I don't know about you, but when I was in high school/college, I hated the day after "dude, you should have been there!" talk, especially if a girl was asking about me.
Yeah, after the first time someone told me a girl was asking about me, I'd show up at the next party to look for her.
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