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Old 07-26-2016, 09:10 PM
 
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So I met a guy with my friend a while ago, I have posted about him before... He drove the uber we took home. So basically we have only ever hung out with him together kind of with the hope of [Mod cut.]. Well now I don't want that I want him. We all hung out this weekend and I know he's perfect. I just like him so much. We saw him with his sibling and it was so cute he would be the cutest dad! I want to tell him but I'm so afraid because if he doesn't reciprocate it's the end of our group activities and friendship. If he does then what? We try to date? I feel like I have 0 confidence lately and 0 game when it comes to men and I have no idea what to do or say. He's so perfect

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Old 07-26-2016, 09:12 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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What has worked for you before?
 
Old 07-26-2016, 09:44 PM
 
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Is this right: You hoped to have [Mod cut.], but you're not really saying if you did, you "hung out"...but maybe you had sex with him and just don't know how to articulate this to us, so anyway, you don't want to now ruin "it" by letting him know you like him? You want to know how to tell him you like him? The sex thing didn't take care of the 'i like you' part of this then?

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Old 07-26-2016, 10:38 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No, it's this guy:

Can the hookup ever be the girlfriend???
 
Old 07-27-2016, 04:06 AM
 
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We didn't have sex we planned to but didn't. Should I just chance it and tell him I'm interested in hanging out
 
Old 07-27-2016, 04:33 AM
 
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And the post about the "Can the hookup be the girlfriend" is about this guy. He's perfect!
 
Old 07-27-2016, 05:36 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yes just tell him.
 
Old 07-27-2016, 06:18 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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First of all no guy is perfect...or perfect for you. And you couldn't know that anyway, based on your brief interactions. So I'd say you are prone to living in a fantasy world, then having that balloon busted quite frequently.

Maybe break the mold on this one and try something new? YOU figure out what would be different - just do an "experiment" and see how it works for you. Otherwise, I got nothin'.
 
Old 07-27-2016, 06:23 AM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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And the post about the "Can the hookup be the girlfriend" is about this guy. He's perfect!
The last guy was "perfect", the military guy was "perfect", and the married guy was "perfect" I'm not sure that you know what perfect means.
 
Old 07-27-2016, 06:26 AM
 
Location: Florida
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The last guy was "perfect", the military guy was "perfect", and the married guy was "perfect" I'm not sure that you know what perfect means.

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