Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Reload this Page How to express that I like this guy?!? (marry, girl, children)
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search
 Search Forums  (Advanced)
Closed Thread Start New Thread
Page 3 of 4 < 12 3 4 >
 
Old 07-27-2016, 02:05 PM
 
Location: Earth
4,575 posts, read 5,195,242 times
Reputation: 7010

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by Gab12 View Post
I just like him so much already like it just flipped on for me
Yes, and this is one of your problems. You're so desperate and needy, you get attached to any guy who speaks to you for a while.

This guy is not dating you. And as such, he is not obligated to be monogamous. And also, if you have sex with him, also know he's still not obligated to be monogamous. Sex doesn't earn love or devotion.

At best, it's good that he be respectful to you. But that's only an "if you're lucky." Otherwise, as a non-girlfriend, he doesn't owe you anything. He's free to chat up and sleep with anyone else he wants.
Last edited by HappyRain; 07-27-2016 at 02:17 PM..

 
Old 07-27-2016, 02:20 PM
 
6,806 posts, read 4,911,132 times
Reputation: 8595
Based on your disasters of the past, here is what you need to do in the future:

Find a guy that you like and that likes you back for more than just how cute you are. Then, start to develop an actual relationship with him, but don't have sex. Let the sex come AFTER you have started to develop a relationship of mutual respect and caring.
 
Old 07-27-2016, 02:22 PM
 
Location: Central IL
20,722 posts, read 16,389,568 times
Reputation: 50380
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gab12 View Post
He just snap chatted with another girl!! Omg I can't text him what if he's into her or dating her or something?!?!? I feel sick to my stomach
Are you 12?

Please don't say you're even thinking about making someone a baby daddy at your current level of maturity. IUDs are FANTASTIC.
 
Old 07-27-2016, 03:17 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
22,601 posts, read 47,707,443 times
Reputation: 48316
C'mon... Uber driver already turned you down for sex and a turned down [Mod cut.].
Leave the poor man alone already.
No need for multiple threads about him.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 07-27-2016 at 08:01 PM.. Reason: Not PG-13.
 
Old 07-27-2016, 04:06 PM
 
741 posts, read 479,023 times
Reputation: 178
Quote:
Originally Posted by reneeh63 View Post
Are you 12?

Please don't say you're even thinking about making someone a baby daddy at your current level of maturity. IUDs are FANTASTIC.
I would never get an IUD and I am not gonna lie I have never been more sure I want a baby with anyone as I was with him in the moments of hanging out
 
Old 07-27-2016, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
49,927 posts, read 59,984,705 times
Reputation: 98359
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gab12 View Post
He just snap chatted with another girl!! Omg I can't text him what if he's into her or dating her or something?!?!? I feel sick to my stomach
Just text him anyway.
 
Old 07-27-2016, 06:25 PM
 
741 posts, read 479,023 times
Reputation: 178
Quote:
Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life View Post
Just text him anyway.
You think he will be into me? I need to work out first so he thinks I'm really pretty
 
Old 07-27-2016, 06:29 PM
 
Location: The Great West
2,084 posts, read 2,623,922 times
Reputation: 4112
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gab12 View Post
He just snap chatted with another girl!! Omg I can't text him what if he's into her or dating her or something?!?!? I feel sick to my stomach
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gab12 View Post
I would never get an IUD and I am not gonna lie I have never been more sure I want a baby with anyone as I was with him in the moments of hanging out
Mod cut.

Take a chill pill lady and grow up! Texting the dude would suffice, you know...like asking him on another date or something?

Or are you just attention-seeking here? Inquiring minds must know.

Also working out isn't going to make you "prettier" (?) in like one day. So give that up.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 07-27-2016 at 08:04 PM..
 
Old 07-27-2016, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
49,927 posts, read 59,984,705 times
Reputation: 98359
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gab12 View Post
You think he will be into me? I need to work out first so he thinks I'm really pretty
Stop acting like this.

He's already seen you. He knows what you look like.

I have no idea if he will be into you. But you need to just go ahead and text him instead of obsessing over it.
 
Old 07-27-2016, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
49,927 posts, read 59,984,705 times
Reputation: 98359
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gab12 View Post
He's a guy so it's ok I know how guys are
Wait ... is he gonna be a "guy" or is he gonna be a "great dad"?
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Closed Thread
Page 3 of 4 < 12 3 4 >

« Previous Thread | Next Thread »

Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 11:49 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top