Does personality matters when finding someone? (how to, women, social, average)

[2pac0900]

I heard that personality captures the heart. I wonder if this is true or not. What does it mean. Many people have a unique trait about them that makes them special. Everybody in the world has some sort of personality. I think when ppl say that personality matters, it means that ppl are trying to find somebody that is social compatible with them.

[TJenkins602]

I think you pretty much got it. Yeah, in the average case, it is your personality that plays a key part in your social life. While looks play a part (the magnitude of that part depending on what one would consider as looks), it is your personality that seals the deal.

[Prince_Frog]

You have to lure them in with the physical first.

[At1WithNature]

For guys it does. They need to have it from a woman's point of view (in my opinion). Guys need to have in the following order:

1) Good personality
2) Good money
3) Good uh um you know

I think that's what most women want.

Guys probably would prefer a dumb, hot chick. Pretty, cute, willing to please, health conscious. A woman who knows how to cook is the cherry on top!! My current woman has brains and she can be tough to deal with it...