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Old 08-05-2013, 08:28 PM
 
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I used to sit beside a girl in class in 2011 and she would always smile, stare at me and be nice to me. Anyways at the end of the semester I added her to facebook and started being mean to her called her ugly, small etc. she just restricted me. Then I kept unfriending her and adding her back and she kept accepting. Anyways I started more convos she responded but then I started being mean again to her and now she just blocks me. I can't stop thinking about her but I don't really like her that much anymore. She also kept mentioning me about a bf while i wa sbeing mean to her. How do you lose feelings

 
Old 08-05-2013, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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You missed the boat!

Plain and simple.

Yes, some girls will take to a guy who rejects them because they will want his approval in some way. Daddy issues? Bottomline is some other guy beat you to the punch and she just saw you as an asshat after all that time elapsed and you were being mean to her without coming on to her strongly.
 
Old 08-05-2013, 08:32 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I used to sit beside a girl in class in 2011 and she would always smile, stare at me and be nice to me. Anyways at the end of the semester I added her to facebook and started being mean to her called her ugly, small etc. she just restricted me. Then I kept unfriending her and adding her back and she kept accepting. Anyways I started more convos she responded but then I started being mean again to her and now she just blocks me. I can't stop thinking about her but I don't really like her that much anymore. She also kept mentioning me about a bf while i wa sbeing mean to her. How do you lose feelings
It's over. Forget about her. And next time, don't be mean to people.
 
Old 08-05-2013, 08:49 PM
 
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Just a guess here, but maybe she rejected you because you were 1st class jackass. I could be wrong, but...

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Anyways at the end of the semester I added her to facebook and started being mean to her called her ugly, small etc. she just restricted me. Then I kept unfriending her and adding her back and she kept accepting. Anyways I started more convos she responded but then I started being mean again to her and now she just blocks me. I can't stop thinking about her but I don't really like her that much anymore. She also kept mentioning me about a bf while i wa sbeing mean to her. How do you lose feelings
 
Old 08-05-2013, 08:50 PM
 
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I used to sit beside a girl in class in 2011 and she would always smile, stare at me and be nice to me. Anyways at the end of the semester I added her to facebook and started being mean to her called her ugly, small etc. she just restricted me. Then I kept unfriending her and adding her back and she kept accepting. Anyways I started more convos she responded but then I started being mean again to her and now she just blocks me. I can't stop thinking about her but I don't really like her that much anymore. She also kept mentioning me about a bf while i wa sbeing mean to her. How do you lose feelings

What?????

It's past your bed time............

and don't get up again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Old 08-05-2013, 08:52 PM
 
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I'm confused, you don't understand why the girl you were repeatedly mean to rejected you? How old are you?
 
Old 08-05-2013, 09:05 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Grow up.

Don't play with people.
 
Old 08-05-2013, 09:08 PM
 
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Cool approach with the ladies, dude. You must be a real hit.
 
Old 08-05-2013, 10:39 PM
 
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I used to sit beside a girl in class in 2011 and she would always smile, stare at me and be nice to me. Anyways at the end of the semester I added her to facebook and started being mean to her called her ugly, small etc. she just restricted me. Then I kept unfriending her and adding her back and she kept accepting. Anyways I started more convos she responded but then I started being mean again to her and now she just blocks me. I can't stop thinking about her but I don't really like her that much anymore. She also kept mentioning me about a bf while i wa sbeing mean to her. How do you lose feelings

Hitch Lessons - YouTube

watch this, learn from it...
 
Old 08-05-2013, 10:41 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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She rejected you because you're ugly, small, etc. Hey - you wanna hang out sometime?
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