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For unattractive people that can mean being single for a VERY long time which I am not really ok with. I have a buddy who has had sex a hand full of times in almost 2 years after his divorce because he is holding out for exactly what your saying and that scares me to death. Just hanging out masturbating to porn for 2 years with no end in sight is not my idea of a good time.
We are not attractive enough to get women from ok cupid to come over and drop pants so that leaves us having to make tough decisions.
To whom are they unattractive to? Many aren't attracted to me but I don't think,"Let's go find me someone gross and rude."
For unattractive people that can mean being single for a VERY long time which I am not really ok with. I have a buddy who has had sex a hand full of times in almost 2 years after his divorce because he is holding out for exactly what your saying and that scares me to death. Just hanging out masturbating to porn for 2 years with no end in sight is not my idea of a good time.
We are not attractive enough to get women from ok cupid to come over and drop pants so that leaves us having to make tough decisions.
See, this is where we differ...you're looking for sex, I'm looking for a relationship. You equate EVERYTHING to getting laid or not getting laid. Everything to you is about masturbating, having sex and porn. Everything. To me, it shows you don't see women as actual people, but just as a means to an end so you can get sexual satisfaction.
I really hope you tell the women you're involved with that you don't care for them, but they have sex with you and that's all that matters.
See, this is where we differ...you're looking for sex, I'm looking for a relationship. You equate EVERYTHING to getting laid or not getting laid. Everything to you is about masturbating, having sex and porn. Everything. To me, it shows you don't see women as actual people, but just as a means to an end so you can get sexual satisfaction.
I really hope you tell the women you're involved with that you don't care for them, but they have sex with you and that's all that matters.
Its because I tried doing the gentlemen thing and the dating women I was interested in going on the dates, asking out, getting rejected, for years. So you start shaving off requirements until all that is left is if your compatible in bed and if she is interested in you sexually. It would be great to have it all, a woman who would want to fly with me (which means she would have to be lighter than me) and who didn't have kids (and didn't want them) and we had great conversation and she was hot and we enjoyed the same things in bed, too bad life has proven that if I had kept all those standards I would be a corpse before I found it.
Most guys don't have a strong sex drive their whole life so its really kind of a waste to flush your 20's and 30's away masterbating to porn, im sorry you think that vulgar or unreasonable but you only get one life and I did not want to spend it getting rejected and masterbating all through my 20's and 30's.
Even if I find a woman who I connect with as a best friend if she is a prude or not interested in me sexually then its not going to work. Im sorry you feel that sex being a VERY important factor to guys is vulgar but its life.
While this is true it's also very sad. I like doing stuff for others to make them happy. However I could not even BEGIN to count how many girls I have taken out to dinner that seemed so unappreciative. Not even so much as a "thanks for dinner."
There are plenty of ungrateful selfish people, male and female, in this world. Always has been, always will be. I don't let that color my own behavior.
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