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Old 08-18-2013, 06:42 PM
 
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who was too hot for you, and so you backed off because of that?

I have.

Pathetic, I know. I just can't handle it.

(when I say hot I mean they look sooooo good it makes you uncomfortable)
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Old 08-18-2013, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yep. He was a swimmer in college. My best guy friend put us together. But I didn't persue him because he was waaaaaaaay too good looking.
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Old 08-18-2013, 06:47 PM
 
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I don't think anyone is that attractive, and it's never happened to me before.
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Old 08-18-2013, 06:48 PM
 
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Nah. I got over that when I went out with the most attractive person I know. Too bad things had to end....
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Old 08-18-2013, 06:49 PM
 
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Yep. He was a swimmer in college. My best guy friend put us together. But I didn't persue him because he was waaaaaaaay too good looking.
Yeah, right?

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Nah. I got over that when I went out with the most attractive person I know. Too bad things had to end....
I figured there are people who can do it.

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I don't think anyone is that attractive, and it's never happened to me before.
I wish I felt like that.
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Old 08-18-2013, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Concord, California
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That surprises me a little coming from you, all of your posts sound like you are a very confident person!
Wouldn't those jitters be like, A REAL attraction to the other person?
Does it make you nervous because, maybe you don't have the same level of control over yourself? I mean that in a good way.
I wonder ...is that what most guys feel like on dates? When they have so many things to be nervous about and they know they're entering the battleground of 'hoping to get lucky not rejected'?
If you know the answer to this let me know...
I have been pretending that I don't notice for a while, since I'm on a self imposed 'single' mission, I KNOW I'm going to do the same kind of thing when I start dating again.

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Old 08-18-2013, 06:54 PM
 
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Yeah, right?


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Old 08-18-2013, 06:54 PM
 
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That surprises me a little coming from you, all of your posts sound like you are a very confident person!
Wouldn't those jitters be like, A REAL attraction to the other person?
Does it make you nervous because, maybe you don't have the same level of control over yourself? I mean that in a good way.
I wonder ...is that what most guys feel like one dates? When they have so many things to be nervous about and they know their entering the battleground of 'hoping to get lucky not rejected'?
If you know the answer to this let me know...
I have been pretending that I don't notice for a while, since I'm on a self imposed 'single' mission, I KNOW I'm going to do the same kind of thing when I start dating again.
Yes, I am attracted but I don't worry too much about control. It's mostly that I feel like I probably could never keep this person happy.
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Old 08-18-2013, 06:56 PM
 
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I have never met anyone in my dating lifetime that was TOO GOOD for me.
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Old 08-18-2013, 06:57 PM
 
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Yes, I am attracted but I don't worry too much about control. It's mostly that I feel like I probably could never keep this person happy.
I think you have put this dude on a pedestal. In the process you have devalued yourself, telling yourself you can't make this person happy.
Take him off the pedestal. Remember that he's a human like you. He poops, farts and sneezes just like you. He is not that hottttt
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