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Old 06-17-2014, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Sputnik Planitia
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Was having a discussion with another guy and he thought that a large majority of women who are against their bio clock will stop at little to get themselves pregnant with a guy who they have determined is "good enough".

Consider this situation - girl in her mid 30s, desperate to be a mom, hears her bio clock going through it's final ticks... meets a nice enough guy, goes on several dates with him and they become a couple, however they have not discussed the future at all.

There is a night where the man is a bit drunk while the girl is sober, he attempts to have unprotected sex with her (against his better judgement, after all he is intoxicated!) but will she STOP him??? Will the vast majority of women in this situation go along with the flow and hope they are impregnated or do you think they will stop him? What do you think?
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:23 PM
 
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I really don't think there are as many "desperate" women out there as you and your friends seem to believe there are.
Does any of this pertain to you or your friends?
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:23 PM
 
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I probably would have stopped him. I wanted to be a parent in my 30's, but I've never wanted to be a single mother. Without knowing what he wanted, there would have been too big of a risk in the scenario you described.
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:25 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Was having a discussion with another guy and he thought that a large majority of women who are against their bio clock will stop at little to get themselves pregnant with a guy who they have determined is "good enough".

Consider this situation - girl in her mid 30s, desperate to be a mom, hears her bio clock going through it's final ticks... meets a nice enough guy, goes on several dates with him and they become a couple, however they have not discussed the future at all.

There is a night where the man is a bit drunk while the girl is sober, he attempts to have unprotected sex with her (against his better judgement, after all he is intoxicated!) but will she STOP him??? Will the vast majority of women in this situation go along with the flow and hope they are impregnated or do you think they will stop him? What do you think?
some do, some don't.

It sucks for the guy and is immoral but I feel a little for the women (I know some of those who desperately want to become a mom but are single).
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I would hope she would, but when a woman's determined... there's nothing really stopping her, Lol
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:30 PM
 
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I probably would have stopped him. I wanted to be a parent in my 30's, but I've never wanted to be a single mother. Without knowing what he wanted, there would have been too big of a risk in the scenario you described.
I agree. At one point I considered being a mom but never a single mom. I don't get that logic at all. I never wanted to have a kid with a reluctant man.
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:36 PM
 
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Another woman bashing thread disguised as "discussion".

Women are "desperate" to steal some unsuspecting sperm are they? Do they put on black masks and perform midnight extractions on the poor men who are helplessly lying there praying it's a dream?

A better topic would be "why is there no Pill for men" as I would like my son protected from these succubi that milk poor drunk men like they're cows.
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:39 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Was having a discussion with another guy and he thought that a large majority of women who are against their bio clock will stop at little to get themselves pregnant with a guy who they have determined is "good enough".

Consider this situation - girl in her mid 30s, desperate to be a mom, hears her bio clock going through it's final ticks... meets a nice enough guy, goes on several dates with him and they become a couple, however they have not discussed the future at all.

There is a night where the man is a bit drunk while the girl is sober, he attempts to have unprotected sex with her (against his better judgement, after all he is intoxicated!) but will she STOP him??? Will the vast majority of women in this situation go along with the flow and hope they are impregnated or do you think they will stop him? What do you think?
Didn't you just post a thread in a similar vein?
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:52 PM
 
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Wishful thinking?

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Was having a discussion with another guy and he thought that a large majority of women who are against their bio clock will stop at little to get themselves pregnant with a guy who they have determined is "good enough".

Consider this situation - girl in her mid 30s, desperate to be a mom, hears her bio clock going through it's final ticks... meets a nice enough guy, goes on several dates with him and they become a couple, however they have not discussed the future at all.

There is a night where the man is a bit drunk while the girl is sober, he attempts to have unprotected sex with her (against his better judgement, after all he is intoxicated!) but will she STOP him??? Will the vast majority of women in this situation go along with the flow and hope they are impregnated or do you think they will stop him? What do you think?
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Old 06-17-2014, 03:55 PM
 
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Didn't you just post a thread in a similar vein?
No pun intended....
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