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Been proposed to twice. I'm honest about it. I have no problem with men wanting to date me (not just sleep with me) regardless. I don't want to find "the one" because I don't believe in marriage. Thanks.
I did not mean that you SHOULD. Know thyself and rock it. There seems to be an opinion by some that being the slutty **** is diametrically opposed to ever being committed. I think that is just wrong.
Interesting theory. I guess that's why I've had sex with men who I never asked for their number to contact and never saw again. I must have given them access to my soul and heart.
I must have given them access to my soul and heart.
Yes, you did. Whether you chose to or not. It's a biological and neurological fact that women bond emotionally with a man after sex. It has to do with a chemical called oxytocin that is released during sex and orgasm. Oxytocin causes emotional, neurological bonding. With men, it is suppressed by their high level of testosterone, whereas with women oxytocin is more active due to the higher levels of estrogen.
Just thought I should add a little bit of actual science in with all the "if it feels good it must be good" attitudes being thrown around in this thread.
Yes, you did. Whether you chose to or not. It's a biological and neurological fact that women bond emotionally with a man after sex. It has to do with a chemical called oxytocin that is released during sex and orgasm. Oxytocin causes emotional, neurological bonding. With men, it is suppressed by their high level of testosterone, whereas with women oxytocin is more active due to the higher levels of estrogen.
Just thought I should add a little bit of actual science in with all the "if it feels good it must be good" attitudes being thrown around in this thread.
So then why afterwards did I go home and never see them, think about them, speak to them, or in some cases even remember their names?
So then why afterwards did I go home and never see, them or think about them, speak to them, or in some cases even remember their names?
Obviously I formed no attachment.
Closing off your thoughts does not mean biology didn't happen. I'm not making this up. Google it. I can choose not to think about someone but it doesn't mean that I have no bond with that person.
For the record, I'm currently involved in a FWB relationship and I've been involved in a quite a few actually. Speaking from my own experience...an ongoing "strictly sexual" relationship always, and I mean always leads to a woman getting more attached and ultimately getting hurt. That's why I'm not particularly proud of my history. Alas, I am but an imperfect man and my desires often get the best of me. Now obviously with a one night stand, the risks of attachment are lowered considerably. But ONS's are pretty nasty, in my opinion.
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