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Old 08-23-2013, 04:08 PM
 
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This is the same guy I've been hanging out towards the ending of May/beginning of June. If you don't remember, he is the quiet guy I was referring to. It turns out, he is a virgin in every way and has been waiting during that time.
Now we've been dating exclusively for 5 weeks. I was wondering if any other women actually had experienced with a virgin bf (esp if he's older than 20; he's 25)? What did it felt like taking a man's virginity?

I never really had a virgin bf and though we have now done some of the other things and he's coming up more, he seems to be taking his time. I don't want to rush it and he did told me about being a bit nervous about it.
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Old 08-23-2013, 07:27 PM
 
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You better be fully tested cause he is completely disease free. If he gets anything it's from you.

Just saying.
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Old 08-23-2013, 07:29 PM
 
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You better be fully tested cause he is completely disease free. If he gets anything it's from you.

Just saying.
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Old 08-23-2013, 07:37 PM
 
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Well everyone has a first time. I don't see why 18 is so different to 25. He probably knows what to do, well in theory at least...you can guide him.
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Old 08-23-2013, 10:02 PM
 
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I don't understand the point of this silly question...why does it matter so much to you? Virginity (or its absence) does not change male anatomy in any way. That's like asking "what's it like having sex with a guy who wears a blue shirt instead of a yellow shirt".
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Old 08-23-2013, 11:43 PM
 
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You better be fully tested cause he is completely disease free. If he gets anything it's from you.

Just saying.
I'm clear and only had 4 past relationships before him. I'm not a disease carrier.
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Old 08-23-2013, 11:44 PM
 
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Well everyone has a first time. I don't see why 18 is so different to 25. He probably knows what to do, well in theory at least...you can guide him.
I don't mind guiding him. I just him to feel comfortable when the time comes and make it special for him. I don't want him to feel nervous. He is different from my past ex bfs, different from any other guy I've dated and this time it me that have to go at a slower pace, the pace he feels comfortable with (first time I've ever been in this position).
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Old 08-23-2013, 11:50 PM
 
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I don't understand the point of this silly question...why does it matter so much to you? Virginity (or its absence) does not change male anatomy in any way. That's like asking "what's it like having sex with a guy who wears a blue shirt instead of a yellow shirt".
I don't mind. I just never been with a virgin man before because I'm going to be honest; there aren't too many virgins nowadays much less male virgins. I was only wondering how to make him feel more comfortable. If it's going to be his first time with me, I want to make it special to him.
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Old 08-23-2013, 11:52 PM
 
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you got mail
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Old 08-24-2013, 12:09 AM
 
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I apologize for my acerbic comment earllier. It's nice that you want to make it special for him - most women would make fun of the guy for being a virgin.
All guys are different so I can't tell you for sure what you can do to make it special, but I can tell you what not to do. Don't mention his virginity. Don't make it an issue, whether negative or positive.
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