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hello im really confused right now and i need your advice i met this girl at work in august 2017 and she is great i like her so much but she is in a long distance relationship they have been toghether for a couple of years but he only started living in another town for a couple of months
we started hanging out she kept saying that her boyfriend always argues with her , we went groceries and eating toghether because we live near eachother and we ended up having sex , nobody knows at work that we are toghether she wants to keep it a secret , she says that she wants to leave her boyfriend but its been months and they are still toghether and i asked her why and she said that she wants to wait for him to break up with her so that she wont look like the bad girl that left her boyfriend for another guy , everyone at work already gossips alot about us because we hang out alot if she breaks up with her bf they will gossip alot more and call her a **** we both dont want that kind of stuff happen . She actualy starts fights with him just so she can make him break up with her
Thing is in december i went in my hometown for the holidays to stay with my family and i found out that she stayed on decemeber 25 and 29 with another coworker at her place they got a little physical
And the same thing happened on 13 april when i had to go home for two weeks i found out that he spent one night at her place but again she only let him touch her a little like ass grab stuff like that but sex didnt happen
The coworker actualy told me everything in order to warn me about the fact that she is a cheater
I confronted her and said thay she is sorry and that she did it because she felt really lonely and she wont do it again , now we both check eachother's phones just so that we can trust each other more
She visited her boyfriend in february for his birthday and stay with him for 2 days . He was suposed to come in april to visit her but he only had 1 free day from work and he didnt come and she got really mad and said that he doesnt love her
In an argument they had on text he asked her "why do you even stay with me ? " and she said "because i love you " and she said that she only said that to make him believe like she is still trying to make the relationship work
i dont know what to do we hang out alot we feel good with eachother but i want things to be official and i dont know how much should i keep waiting
Dude, reread everything you just said....do you really want to be with a person like that?
She's playing ya'll like fiddles.
but she says that she really loves me and she cant wait to break up with the boyfriend and be official with me
now we constantly check eachother's phone so that there wont be any doubt between us and she even shows me the entire conversations with her boyfriend so that i see that she is realy arguing with him
She might be giving you sex but the lady voted "girl most likely to..." might also be giving you something else, being with other men. Run in the opposite direction quick!
She's cheating on her boyfriend, with you. What do you think will happen when you are the boyfriend and are not within a mile of home?
I say keep things as is, if she's giving it out freely - but if she turns all exclusive on you, run.
she is only cheating because he treats her bad and that he is far away she says that if it wasnt for all the gossip at work she would break up with him in an instant
but she says that she really loves me and she cant wait to break up with the boyfriend and be official with me
now we constantly check eachother's phone so that there wont be any doubt between us and she even shows me the entire conversations with her boyfriend so that i see that she is realy arguing with him
That obviously doesn't mean jack because she's messing around with other guys WHILE screwing around with you two as well.
Unless you two agreed to an open relationship, she. is. playing. you.
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