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I notice a general pattern, "obese" men hit on me much less frequently than other types (not that I even know what that means). Once in a blue moon. For me it tends to be thin guys, average guys or buff guys, or "solid" guys. I would not be describes as "thin."
For some reason obese men hit on me and it's almost always followed with a comment like "nice to see a woman in shape". Then when I tell them no they get mad like how dare I. I don't happen to be attracted to obese men for the most part but maybe I would be if he was nice. These guys who hit on me rarely are and most make comments about large women.
To others: So what is the difference between fat, heavy or big & beautiful? Fat are the overweight people you don't like or know?
Fat, large, chunky, overweight, obese (which is a BMI above a certain level,but still in the range of excess adipose tissue), big, husky, big and beautiful...no matter how we try to change it or make it sound nicer, it all means the same.
I like that saying, but if you are continually told you are less than desirable, and it is reinforced by society and the media you will almost always end up believing that you are inferior.
agreed!
OP's wife is gorgeous, by the way. I am genuinely happy for them. They are good looking happy couple.
I like that saying, but if you are continually told you are less than desirable, and it is reinforced by society and the media you will almost always end up believing that you are inferior.
You see, I've been verbally abused by my grandmother, and so have my brother.
She has told us, "You are ugly, worthless, useless, stupid.." etc, etc, etc.
My brother and I believed her when we were younger although we were constantly been complimented by our parents and strangers that we were "gorgeous, smart, talented" etc, etc, etc. Life was certainly confusing.
Then, I finally discovered the truth! My grandmother was abandoned by my white grandfather, he was a talented exceptional true artist who happened to be left handed (I am left handed too )
She hated me because I reminded her of something she couldn't have - the only man she truly loved
Some people bash others simply because they are jealous! Their problem, not mine!
Maybe those people say they hate fat chicks have been rejected by bigger beautiful women, you never know! Maybe they are just unhappy jealous people!!
Didn't you know, younger women desire older men even if they are obese. Sarcasm but so many men believe this lie. When I was in my 20's the only older man I would have dated was one who was in excellent shape and VERY handsome. Obese, average looking? nope.
You see, I've been verbally abused by my grandmother, and so have my brother.
She has told us, "You are ugly, worthless, useless, stupid.." etc, etc, etc.
My brother and I believed her when we were younger although we were constantly been complimented by our parents and strangers that we were "gorgeous, smart, talented" etc, etc, etc. Life was certainly confusing.
Then, I finally discovered the truth! My grandmother was abandoned by my white grandfather, he was a talented exceptional true artist who happened to be left handed (I am left handed too )
She hated me because I reminded her of something she couldn't have - the only man she truly loved
Some people bash others simply because they are jealous! Their problem, not mine!
Maybe those people say they hate fat chicks have been rejected by bigger beautiful women, you never know! Maybe they are just unhappy jealous people!!
"You see, I've been verbally abused by my grandmother, and so have my brother."
I had one of those grandmothers. Mine was mean as a snake. I think she had some skeletons in her closet (Like real ones. There was a boyfriend in her past that turned up dead). Fortunately it didn't affect me other than me being pissed off at her. My siblings and cousins may have a different opinion though.
"Maybe those people say they hate fat chicks have been rejected by bigger beautiful women, you never know! Maybe they are just unhappy jealous people!!"
Could be, or just hearing you are less than desirable compared to thinner people.
Fat, large, chunky, overweight, obese (which is a BMI above a certain level,but still in the range of excess adipose tissue), big, husky, big and beautiful...no matter how we try to change it or make it sound nicer, it all means the same.
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