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Old 09-29-2013, 07:31 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Does a guy's past matter to you? What if he had a history of telling women what they wanted to hear just to bed them? As long as he was honest with the girls he slept with, would you hold it against him? Would you have doubts as to whether this type of guy could "settle down"?
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Old 09-29-2013, 07:38 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Nope.
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Old 09-29-2013, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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nope
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Old 09-29-2013, 08:05 AM
 
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eh.......it is in the past and should be left in the past.
Men or women cannot voluntarily have sex with you unless you allow it to happen whether they tell you the truth or lie to you.
If the sex is not voluntary that is a completely different legal arena that needs to be taken seriously and handled appropriately.
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Old 09-29-2013, 10:03 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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Not for me. Why would I think that he told every other woman what they wanted to hear, just to get sex, but yet, he would be 100% honest with me.

I would assume that he was also lying to me.

Besides male whores have this tendency to be diseased, so that isn't very attractive.
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Old 09-29-2013, 10:07 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Does a guy's past matter to you? What if he had a history of telling women what they wanted to hear just to bed them? As long as he was honest with the girls he slept with, would you hold it against him? Would you have doubts as to whether this type of guy could "settle down"?
I don't get it. The two bolded sentences contradict each other. If he had a history of telling them what the wanted to hear just to bed them - then he wasn't completely honest with them.
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Old 09-29-2013, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Men and women alike should enter a relationship giving their partner a clean slate. I really don't think it is reasonable to hold someone's past against him or her. Of course, this assumes honesty on all parties. Failure to disclose or be honest is a different issue. But if people go in openly and know of their partner's past, and still go forward, they are agreeing to accept that past and their partner, and not hold it against them.
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Old 09-29-2013, 10:27 AM
 
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There's just a better chance that the woman would have better sex if the guy slept with a bunch of women.

I'm sure they'd like that.
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Old 09-29-2013, 10:32 AM
 
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At the very least, the people on this thread are being consistent with their responses on the thread about promiscuous women. That being said, I am also consistent and say that if I was a woman I'd run like Forrest Gump.
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Old 09-29-2013, 10:45 AM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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Lol someone is bored this morning. Three words R U N.
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