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Old 10-22-2013, 10:36 AM
 
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Same reason women wear snug revealing outfits and tell men that it's "to feel good about themselves."
We do what we feel we need to get the results we want.

sigh just sigh. humanity is lost.
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Old 10-22-2013, 10:42 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Can we please remind ourselves that there was nothing in the original post indicating that these men were NOT interested in a LTR with the OP.
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Old 10-22-2013, 11:06 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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I had a feeling OP was familiar. Wants to have her cake and eat it too.

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...dont-want.html
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Old 10-22-2013, 11:09 AM
 
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I had a feeling OP was familiar. Wants to have her cake and eat it too.

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...dont-want.html

What's the point of having a cake that you can't eat?
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Old 10-22-2013, 11:12 AM
 
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I had a feeling OP was familiar. Wants to have her cake and eat it too.

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...dont-want.html

Not interested in having sex right away, but has a FWB and makes anyone she dates wait? Women like her are the reasons you have to push for sex right away.
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Old 10-22-2013, 11:30 AM
 
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OP, is this for real ? so you're saying:

you have a guy you sleep with.. but you keep that a secret.

and you're just looking for another guy, but one that will commit to a sexless relationship, while you're already giving it up to some other dude?
Awesome!!!!
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Old 10-22-2013, 11:33 AM
 
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Not interested in having sex right away, but has a FWB and makes anyone she dates wait? Women like her are the reasons you have to push for sex right away.
much like most attractive, young women, OP reserves the right to have sex right away, but only in FWB type situations or in case she meets someone who isn't a LTR material, like a loser or someone who treats her like crap. If she meets a guy who is LTR material and treats her well, she makes him walk around with blue balls for 90+days, while lying to him about screwing losers the moment she meets them. So very typical. LMAO.
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Old 10-22-2013, 11:34 AM
 
Location: socal baby
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This ^^^^exactly most men think women are on a dating site like my sister are deseperate . My sister is a former model and beautiful and hardly desperate but most of the men she has dated off an on line site are always blaming the women for things they went through Ugh !!!! My sister has since decided that she will no longer date off an online site . She said she would rather be lonely than to spend the rest of her life with a loser and I could not agree more .

ohhh, i see, you too have bought into your sister's bullsh*t that she is perfect and drama free.

IME, most, if not all, hot looking women come with an attitude. it's hard to control the insanity of men wanting to have them without developing some control and defensive mechanisms.

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Old 10-22-2013, 01:27 PM
 
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much like most attractive, young women, OP reserves the right to have sex right away, but only in FWB type situations or in case she meets someone who isn't a LTR material, like a loser or someone who treats her like crap. If she meets a guy who is LTR material and treats her well, she makes him walk around with blue balls for 90+days, while lying to him about screwing losers the moment she meets them. So very typical. LMAO.

if women are as picky as this forum suggests, who exactly is having instant sex with losers? doesn't that make the dateless and sexless the real losers?
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Old 10-22-2013, 01:34 PM
 
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Think about it this way...if you are attractive they want to have sex with you. Story closed. Maybe you don't offer anything more than that for them?
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