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Old 02-20-2013, 07:29 PM
 
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A gal on OKC has sent me 3 messages. Each trying attempting to get me to respond.

I finally did and I told her, I am not interested in full figured women.


Why did I say that? She sent a nasty message back and stated that I had no idea how to "respect women". She also said "good luck because I'll need it".


Well, I guess I can't say that anymore.

I am a skinny guy, lots of women don't like skinny guys. I get that and can easily accept that. No biggie.

 
Old 02-20-2013, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Ok.
 
Old 02-20-2013, 07:38 PM
 
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When a woman I'm not interested in messages me, I usually respond by telling her I'm only looking for sex.
 
Old 02-20-2013, 07:41 PM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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It's called a defense mechanism.
 
Old 02-20-2013, 07:45 PM
 
Location: Western Colorado
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Same thing happened to me once. I stated I was attracted to tall slender woman and NOT interested in anyone who is BBW. I got some scathing emails and one TWO PAGE rip from a woman who told me off. All very odd. Everyone has to be so politically correct, walk on egg shells for fear of offending someone.
 
Old 02-20-2013, 07:48 PM
 
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Originally Posted by jim9251 View Post
Same thing happened to me once. I stated I was attracted to tall slender woman and NOT interested in anyone who is BBW. I got some scathing emails and one TWO PAGE rip from a woman who told me off. All very odd. Everyone has to be so politically correct, walk on egg shells for fear of offending someone.
Correction. Everyone but the person who is "offended" judging by the scathing emails. You dodged some bullets imo.

Last edited by JanND; 02-20-2013 at 07:52 PM.. Reason: edit text
 
Old 02-20-2013, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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The Relationships subforum is becoming the Yelp of online dating sites.

[is there an app for that?]
 
Old 02-20-2013, 07:58 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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It's usually better to just say you don't think you're a match and leave it at that. Never give a reason - noone likes rejection, especially if it's justified.
 
Old 02-20-2013, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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Originally Posted by Johnny Danes View Post
A gal on OKC has sent me 3 messages. Each trying attempting to get me to respond.

I finally did and I told her, I am not interested in full figured women.


Why did I say that? She sent a nasty message back and stated that I had no idea how to "respect women". She also said "good luck because I'll need it".


Well, I guess I can't say that anymore.

I am a skinny guy, lots of women don't like skinny guys. I get that and can easily accept that. No biggie.
Yeah, you already said that in the thread title.
 
Old 02-20-2013, 08:03 PM
 
Location: Pa
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When a woman I'm not interested in messages me, I usually respond by telling her I'm only looking for sex.
Haha.
Op you should of lied. "Today my dear I decided I like men"
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