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Yes but not traditionally. And I don't do that often. Ido it maybe 1-2x every 2 months. I feel like a perv doing it and feel guilty and nasty afterwards. I did it a lot more when I was younger, but as I get older I find it more embarrassing and try just not to do it unless I'm extremely sexually frustrated.
I suppose if you are in the relationship focusing on the sexual part it could be but if you are in the relationship because you love who you are with, just them, without all the outside blah blah it works out.
Obviously it has for them because they are still together.
Think about it though, if you love someone and you are with them and you or they get a dvastating illness or are in an accident do you leave them just because they cannot have sex with you as often as before or ever again?
Do you love them enough to stay with them no matter what the circumstances are?
If you cannot honestly answer yes to that question then you are with the wrong person for the wrong reasons.
There are so many things that can happen throughout one's lifetime to change the intial attraction factors between two humans. If those factors change do you toss the entire relationship in the trash?
This is a good blog topic, I'll have to do that soon........
No , but it's a tough call , at any age. When your wife tells you she is just not interested in sex with you anymore , after say 30 years , well a guy begins to wonder what's wrong with himself. And then any romantic relationship he has to be from someone else , well yes it's a tough call. Contary to popular beleif men want a romance too , maybe more then women. Sex is a part of that romantic relationship. It's very easy for a man to feel cheated after no romance for say eight years. And it's also quite posable he has become less interested in his pardner as well. It's not a good feeling to feel loanly all the time. What is a guy to do? Open marriage? , divorice ? I am sure nether one wants that after all the years together.
There was a study that said that there is a percentage of women that never climax. I felt I got close a few times, because I would get that "I need to pee" urge but nothing ever came of it. Is it really that abnormal for a woman to never climax through intercourse?
A lot of women don't have an O thru intercourse alone. Don't feel awkward for that, it is surprisingly common. I know when I was a young man I felt bad that women didn't always get off that way, but then I read a lot of things, as I was a student of the female anatomy....
Anyways, you should be able to get yourself there and show your man how to get you there too.......
Yes but not traditionally. And I don't do that often. Ido it maybe 1-2x every 2 months. I feel like a perv doing it and feel guilty and nasty afterwards. I did it a lot more when I was younger, but as I get older I find it more embarrassing and try just not to do it unless I'm extremely sexually frustrated.
Thank you ever so much for this way too much information shared in any circumstance let alone on a public forum.....
Y'know, Faith, it's hard to tell from a description, but what you are describing sounds to me like it might not quite be an orgasm.
And that wouldn't be unusual -- a lot of people think they are having orgasms, until they really have one. You can get a feeling of satisfaction just by getting close, in some ways.
And that would explain why you don't do it very often, and why you couldn't do it with your ex.
As for the emotional stuff, it really is not how most people feel, and most people also don't have to hide their emotions when they are in bed with a partner. But you don't have to change it if you don't want to. I just wanted to tell you that changing it is an option, in case you didn't know.
Y'know, Faith, it's hard to tell from a description, but what you are describing sounds to me like it might not quite be an orgasm.
And that wouldn't be unusual -- a lot of people think they are having orgasms, until they really have one. You can get a feeling of satisfaction just by getting close, in some ways.
And that would explain why you don't do it very often, and why you couldn't do it with your ex.
As for the emotional stuff, it really is not how most people feel, and most people also don't have to hide their emotions when they are in bed with a partner. But you don't have to change it if you don't want to. I just wanted to tell you that changing it is an option, in case you didn't know.
Wow. You serious? What is an orgasm supposed to feel like that makes you think I'm not having a real one. I watch pornos and when they orgasm it does seem vastly different but I just figured it was theatrix.
I been masturbating the same way since I was like 5 (TMI lol) so it very well could be that maybe I have not had an orgasm and just reached some peak that isnt the real one but close enough?
These are all reasons that I just avoid sex since I broke up with my ex, it's too complicated and makes me feel like I'm weird because I can't orgasm or enjoy it like other people do.
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