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Well I would never ask out a guy unless things are progressing in a natural way after about 3 months or so. Women get into trouble, especially these days, when they take over the lead role in a dating relationship by texting/calling a guy and offering themselves up without even knowing if the guy is even interested in them as evident by his ACTIONS. Most guys want to feel needed and not chased into a relationship by a girl. Only guys in my experience that want to be "asked out" in the initial stages of dating are insecure dudes, and they tend to make the worst boyfriends and lovers anyways. It's not 1950 anymore, but men and women are different in terms of how they fall in love. Most relationships that tend to be successful are generally when the man is more in love with the woman than vice versa.
I agree, FNP24;31992396. I like to know that the guy really likes me before I start suggesting dates unless he asks me what I want to do. The three month wait works for me.
So I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months, he always initiates the dates we've been on. Once he had asked to see me, but I was busy that night and asked if we get together the following night, which we did (so don't really think that constitutes me initiating). So the other day he made a comment in passing, how I never ask to see him, it's always him asking to see me (he said this in a joking manner). So question to the guys, if you were seeing a girl for a couple of months and she never initiated dates, would you think she's not that interested? The thing is I'm kinda traditional in that I think in the first couple of months the man should iniate the dates, I do intiate contact though.
I think he was hinting to you that you should ask him out. I think guys wouldn't mind at all to be asked out. This way he knows it's a two-way street that you want to see him, just as much as he wants to see you.
I agree, FNP24;31992396. I like to know that the guy really likes me before I start suggesting dates unless he asks me what I want to do. The three month wait works for me.
Don't you hate it when the whole dating thing is "over thought", or is considered "playing games'?
I'm glad Im out of the dating world, it sounds like there are too many rules and protocols to follow.
If you want to ask him out, ask him out.
I met my wife around the time that we both had personally professed we were done playing games and were done looking for anything, and then bam, there she was.
So I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months, he always initiates the dates we've been on. Once he had asked to see me, but I was busy that night and asked if we get together the following night, which we did (so don't really think that constitutes me initiating). So the other day he made a comment in passing, how I never ask to see him, it's always him asking to see me (he said this in a joking manner). So question to the guys, if you were seeing a girl for a couple of months and she never initiated dates, would you think she's not that interested? The thing is I'm kinda traditional in that I think in the first couple of months the man should iniate the dates, I do intiate contact though.
I think your initiating a date would send a nice signal his way, namely that he doesn't have to do all the work in the relationship. I knew MrsCPG was into me when she called after two dates to take a ride in her new convertible.
So,ive been seeing this guy for five months.He calls everyday,but the last month,i always initiate the dates.Is he into me?why he is not asking me out?
So,ive been seeing this guy for five months.He calls everyday,but the last month,i always initiate the dates.Is he into me?why he is not asking me out?
He would if he wanted to. Why don't you hold off on initiating dates and see if he steps up? If he doesn't, you will have your answer.
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